How do you turn a straight guy gay? Being gay or straight is thought to be fixed at birth. It is true that women are more flexible than men in sexual preferences, but not by much. And why would you want to turn a lesbian straight? A lesbian is free to live her life the way she seems fit. There are therapists who provide counseling that is claimed by them to turn homosexuals to heterosexuals, but ultimately their success rate is zero.
Just accept what is, and make the best of it.Opinion:I believe a true lesbian cannot be turned "straight". Believe me, I've had too many guys try to use that line on me: That I "haven't found the right guy yet... blah blah blah...." If a girl claims to be a lesbian and then has sex with a man, or if she even agrees to have sex with a man -- that's a red flag. No lesbian I know would accept or even talk about having sex with a man. A true lesbian wouldn't get into bed with a man, period--any more than a straight man would consider having sex with another man. Opinion:
You don't turn anybody anything. You can't change them. And if you think you can you're arrogant.
It's simply not going to happen. I have never in my life had any attractions to a man period. That's not to say that I hate men because I don't. I have a number of male friends that I'm quite close too, but not in a sexual attraction sense and they are gentleman enough...they are REAL MEN...and respect me for who and what I am, just as I accord them. To be so arrogant to think that "the right guy" or anything so foolishly conceived is going to "turn a lesbian" is hogwash and idiotic. You can't make someone something they're not. I was born a lesbian and honestly am a little offended anyone would think they could change me just by being male.
There is no way to make someone else like the same sex; they do that on their own. If they began to find themselves having more questions about what being with the same sex is like, you could call them bi-curious. But if they want to be a lesbian they are going to like girls that's not something anyone else can do for them.
But if you want to try something; heres what you do:
You have to become their friend - be friendly, give them hugs, always listen to them.
Once things fall into place hug them more often - maybe even a playful hit
if you two are alone or something - here's when you make the move;
try to kiss her, look into her eyes and move closer - if she provides the same contact, then try to make the first move kiss her.
Since answer 2 became part of answer 1 by merging questions, I would like to add if the above is tried on a minor, the aggressor could have child molestation charges brought against them - as well as other charges; like contributing to the delinquency of a minor or even sexual perversion charges in some states that still have archaic laws, regarding homosexuals! Another possible outcome could be sexual harassment charges, depending on the circumstances of your relationship.
I firmly believe in honesty, if you are attracted to a young woman - if she doesn't know already, let her know your sexual orientation. Make the conversation as casual as possible, you could drop the name of an ex partner or a celebrity you find attractive. Then leave the next move up to her or send her a note explaining your feelings for her and ask if she feels the same way.
Either way, you need to be prepared to be shot down and even the loss of a friendship if she finds the situation too awkward, to continue being "just friends".
Do not hit on straight girl continuously, if she said she is not interested. Lesbians hate it when straight guys try to flip them. You don't, period.
There is no way to make someone else like the same sex they do that on their own if they began to find themselves having more questions about what being with the same sex is like you could call them bi cururious but if they want to be a lesbian they are going to like girls that's not something anyone else can do but them
But if you want to try something:
heres what you do:
you have to become there friend be friendly give them hugs always listen to them
once things fall into place hug them more often maybe even a playful hit
if you two are alone are something heres when u make the move
try to kiss her look into her eyes and mov closer if she provides the same contact then try to make the first move
i hope this helps
Into what ! You can't make someone be a lesbian - neither can you 'convert' a lesbian into a straight person. A person's sexuality is their choice - you have no right to try to change who they are !
illegal and impossible. If she changes her identity one day, that's completely up to her and you cannot do a thing about it.
Nobody 'turns' gay. It is a built-in state like blue eyes or brown hair, it is NOT a choice.
You are born lesbian. It's not something you catch or turn into to.
You don't change a person in a matter like this. They are what they are. Let her be what she is.
im not a lesbian but maybe you can kiss her on her neck until she starts to feel good
If she is someones girlfriend and not the lesbian's then she might not be a lesbian. She could merely be friends with this girl. If she is the lesbian's girlfriend then yes she probably is then. :)
Then your a Lesbian?
She tells you that she is a lesbian.
Be there for her and support her. DO NOT FRECKEN DUMP HER!
Well that'd be a lesbian cheater.
With a girlfriend.
No, you are born lesbian. It's not something you catch or turn into to.
I doubt she would be your "girlfriend" if that was the case.
she is not lesbian
They are born lesbian. It's not something you catch or turn into to.
no she isn't but her girlfriend is