How does the mistress feel after the affair is found out?

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Well, I've never been a mistress, but I could use my husband's mistress and now ex-mistress. But before I go on, just want to write one thing that really annoyed or upset the man that I married. He asked me not to call the woman he had an affair with, his ex girlfriend, mistress and even a lover, "Ditto" right?

To continue, how does the mistress feel when the affair has been discovered? From my own experience, my husband said to me that she understood from the start that he doesn't want to break his family for our kid's sake, devoted right but this conversation they had was after he slept with her. To make the story short, his mistress is still part of our life, but if you ask him he will tell you that he already washed his hands when it comes to her. This woman is pissed and hurt, not betrayed, wives are the one that feel betrayed. For 3 years now his ex mistress has done everything possible, so my husband will know who he messes around with. At first he blamed me because I humiliated her, duh! if I'm not carrying his last name and if he didn't betray and used my secret to her, my life will not be this way.

Anyway she send text, email, regular letters, passing through our house, will shout in front of my home, left roses in front of our front door for him, harass my 2 daughters inside the face book, gave me the voice recorded she made while they were having sex. This are some of the things that she does, and now writing me a very nice letter asking me for something.

But it differ to individual, but this is mine so I guess mistress has different kinds of tantrum