If the married man discuss his wife with you, there will only be 2 things, and that is he wants you to know that his life with her is so bad. His needs is not being met anymore because his wife is always busy with the house and the children. His wife don't have time to make him feel special. Or when a married man start talking about his wife with you, he will tell you lots of story so you will feel sorry for him. He will make sure that you know he is a good husband who have time to find a new friend and it will not be a male friend but a woman friend. So it's up to you whether you will buy his story and help him ruin his family..
Also my husband really talked to his ex mistress for a while about me, he said he have this big problem towards me, so yes there are some married men that is willing to talk about their wife... Comment was I am a Sociopath, personality complex, in short he said I have 2 split personality. But I'm glad that this man that I married has the PhD on how to notice or love his wife. Even his mistress has PhD on how to accept a married man with The Bible all over it....God will punish me for this one day......
ANSWER: A mistress is a woman who has relationship with a married man. She is what the married man's wife is not She is a woman who does not have kids so the married man will get all the attention. She is a woman who's always available for her married man because his wife is very busy taking care of everything at his home. A mistress is a woman that gets only a few hours from the married man. She is a woman who can only have a weekend if possible. A mistress is the person that can not spend any holiday with her married man, unless the married man divorce his wife and he marry the mistress. A mistress is the person that can give the needs of the married man because his wife can't or won't. Over all a mistress is a woman that the married man's wife is not.
I never heard a married man talk about his wife to his mitress. I think the reason why he end up having an affair is for him not to think, talk, or even look at his wife. The only way that married man will talk about his wife to his mistress is when he want her to feel sorry for him or maybe to make sure that his mistress will think that his wife is not a good wife and then some.
He wants to stay married to his wife and is using the mistress for extramarital sex purposes.
Married men who cheat on their wives and have a mistress generally use the mistress for a sexual relationship; feeling the freedom he is not married to her and can either go back to his wife when he is bored with the mistress or, if he is caught cheating by his wife or he decides to divorce his wife then he would want him freedom and the statistics of a married man divorcing and marrying his mistress is very low; generally he just wants to do as he pleases and doesn't care if he hurts women along the way.
first of all cant you just say wife anyway the reason is because they dont want the wife (mistress) falling in love with another man
ANSWER: Are you joking, did you think because you had told his wife what he was doing, that will be the end of it. Mistress hardly go and see the wife, of the man she was having the affair, her intent is if the wife learn about her husband, it will automatically going to kick him out of their house. And this is mistress dream. When a woman becomes the mistress it will be for her benefit as well as the married man, why? the only way a mistress can let go her married lover is when she have a soul.
The only thing I can think of for a married man to think of his ex mistress is if he fell in love with her and he don't love his wife anymore, got spoiled on everything from her. And maybe his ex mistress is good in bed, not like his wife just doing the same old thing.
Yes, some men get jealous over their mistress, but this does not always mean the married man loves the mistress, but some men feel she is their property and in only a very few cases is it truly love. Remember, this married man has a wife and he would be jealous if his wife had another man on the string. Mistresses often lose when a wife is involved and if the cheating man really cared about the affair she would not be his mistress; he would get a divorce and either live with her or marry her.
A concubine is a woman who lives with a man, but is lower in status than his wife or wives. A mistress is a woman having an affair with a married man.
He probably cares about her but she should remember that she is his second choice. Otherwise she would be his wife and not his mistress.
Tell them both what you did and get delt with.
* She would be called a 'Mistress' among some not so nice names by those that disagree with the relationship. When women have affairs with married men the percentage is high that she isn't honest with herself and knows a married man is safe and she doesn't have to commit to him (same can apply to the married man.) If the mistress is truly in love with the married man she'd better not count on him to leave his wife and come rushing to her. Generally the relationship between mistress and a married man doesn't work out. If the wife finds out the man will either go back to his wife (if she will have him) or want his freedom and wouldn't want to commit to another relationship so quickly.