No, there is not. The term "gay" applies equally to both genders, and in fact, there is a small but growing movement to replace the word "lesbian" with the word "gay". Furthermore, the word "gay" generally refers only to men if it is coupled with the word "lesbian."
It's when gay men can't be bothered.
Cottage is a word used in Britain for a public toilet. Sometimes gay men meet other men there and invite them home for tea and crumpet.
Gay men are already men.
Gay men are individuals who are attracted to other men romantically and/or sexually. Sexual orientation (being gay) does not influence someone's gender identity (being a man). Men, whether straight or gay, identify as male based on their self-perception and expression.
The word "fleet" has one syllable.
When women are gay, they are interested in other women. When men are gay, they are intersted in other men
Only straight men hate being called gay. Most gay men prefer the term "gay."
Gay men usually chase other men.
About 3.5% to 8% of men are gay. That is a small minority.
There is no odor particular to gay men.
Gay men do not dislike lesbians.