IF YOU ARE GIRL DOING THIS THEN NO BUT EVEN IF YOU ARE A BOY YOU SHOULDN'T DO THIS.. IT IS JUST WRONG!
No. It depends. If you are a lesbian of course lesbian sex is more satisfying and if your straight of course straight sex is more satisfying.
it's forbidden
fingering, oral, sex toys, or scissoring
You don't - you have LESBIAN sex.
Well, I would call them "confused." They might think that it's okay to be bisexual and have sex with other women once in a while, but that it's wrong to be exclusively lesbian. I would suspect that this person needs to do a little reading.
No, you cannot control whether you are lesbian or gay. Your sexual orientation is something you are born with and there's nothing wrong with that. You could control whether you pursue same-sex relationships/sex, but that is a personal choice which has nothing to do with your actual orientation.
can get sex with a woman
No
Yes, of course it is.
if you are a male and you prefer your own sex then you are GAY ! if you are a woman and prefer your own sex then you are a LESBIAN ! a male cant be a lesbian !
It depends on how they do it. Rarely do lesbians have penises, because to be lesbian you have to be female. Sometimes they have sex with dildos, but no it is not exactly the same.