How do you know if you are pansexual?

Answer 1

its really just a state of knowing.

I realized that when i look at people, i don't look at boy, girl, or whatever.

I look at who they really are.

So, if you don't look at gender at all.

Basically, that's how you know.

I totally agree with what you said. I am a 64 year young woman. I have only recently came out of my sexual and or cultural hibernation. (not out as far as my truly vanilla sister is concerned). I am only saying this because I feel that there is a lot of us pans out there, in or around my age bracket, that maybe wondering about their own orientation. And perhaps, not even admitting that to their own self. For fear of condemnation.

Pans, take heart! Our thing is not always sexual. We can and do become more vital when a person's total dynamics has aroused us, (if the dynamics are true, the other knows). Liz

I realized when I saw a transgender girl and imagines dating her. And I've thought I was bisexual before so pan just kind of makes more sense. -Devin

Answer 2

Pansexuality is when a person is attracted to individuals regardless of their gender identity or expression. If you find yourself being romantically or sexually attracted to people regardless of gender, you may identify as pansexual. It's about being open to connections with individuals based on who they are as a person rather than their gender.