When a person really likes someone it's very normal to feel nervous. Don't forget, usually the person you are asking can get nervous to. That's what makes it all so great about romance .... liking someone enough to ask them out, then getting butterflies in your stomach and wondering if you are going to say or do something foolish. Most of us all go through that. You'll get over it with practice. If the girl is the type of girl you hope to be with (decent manners, good personality, decent sense of humor) then she'll try her best to make things as easy as possible too. Consider it an adventure between two people. Take a deep breath, ask her to a movie. You could also double-date with another couple (a good buddy of yours and his girlfriend.) Going to the movies is easier because the movie theater is dark, you don't have to talk all the time, and once out of the movies you could go to a cafe and the 4 of you could have a good time there as well. First dates are like job interviews, they make you nervous, but sometimes they are worth it. Good luck Marcy
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