Can you date even if you're not interesting?

Answer 1

I'm the type of guy that's kinda just there, in my group of friends. I feel content in doing whatever, just to hangout, but I usually prefer to be alone.

I live with my parents, stay in my room playing guitar/Video Games or listening to music. I don't do much else besides go to work, come home, and sleep.

My friends and some co-workers(only people I talk to) know ive never kissed a girl and when pretty girl comes along. They'd tell me to talk to her, but i'd either say something like "she's probably not interested" or ignore their comment altogether.

The truth, what I don't say, is that im not outgoing like they are. They all do cool stuff, like sports, party, etc.

Im not the best looking guy, but even if a girl did find me attractive...why would she bother with me if I have nothing else to offer. Some girls seem happy and fun, but im just this boring dude. And if we ever dated, she would know how boring I am and immediately move on.

Im somewhat comfortable with my life(aside from trying to move out) but i would like to feel loved, ya know.

21 yo male