Your 14 year old son wants nose ring?

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Hi Arthi. Even i had a similar experience some ears ago. I love big danglers in to my ears. One day i purchased a ear set for myself and after reaching home i just tried it in front of the mirror. I was just shaking my head to experience the movements of the danglers. My then 8 year old son observed it and he liked them swinging in my ears. To my surprise he started asking me to get him the same.I was fed up saying they are not for you.I approached my hubby and he said "If he wants to wear earrings then lets do that. It is harmless and it is beautiful.if his wish to wear an earring is suppressed, that restriction may later cause the development of an obsession for various piercings.

So we decided to get it done. On the other hand, I remember boys that got an earring at the age of 9, proudly wore that earring for several years and finally abandoned it when they left school. So we decided that we will go for it and We took him to a goldsmith and had his ears pierced. It's fashion and it looks really good. We selected a pair of beautiful studs.It's really very cute.I convened him to adjust with the studs for time being and later we will go for some hoops. We were worried how his friends at sdhool receive him. To my surprise his wearing studs prompted many boys to do it. During this time he always kept asking for dancing hoops. Since his holes for too tight for hoops i did't change his studs. My parents did't like it. I think a majority

of older people are against it simply because it wasn't the going thing when they were young. They tried their best to take the studs off but I stood by my son. I could 't imagine him without those studs.I think if boys want to have their ears pierced then they should be allowed.

After one year due to his force i got him small rings.He was looking pretty in them. But he wanted something touching his cheek with a movement.Gradually he started wearing hoops and got one more above the first hole on each ear with my help. Now it is common for us to see him in different ear rings often. The funniest part is that now i and my son share our earrings. On his 12th B'day i gifted him 11/2 inch golden hoops with stones around. He looked so attractive in them. Now whatever he wears i support him. He is very obedient to me. Recently he got a third piercing in his ears.Dam GOD he looks so cute with a hoop and small rings upon it. Not to forget the latest development on his nose. He got a stunning ring on his left nose trill.Now I'm also thinking about letting him have few more piercings higher up on his ears. I don't understand why its okay for girls and not okay for boys. In my opinion its perfectly normal and fine.

Not to mention its very cool. It strengthened our relationship very well. So please go for it. Fulfill his wishes and see the difference.