Yes and no it all depends on the person
Many BFs, or boyfriends, are not abusive. If a boyfriend is abusive, the girl should leave the relationship and file charges. Do not keep going back to an abuser.
well, you know you shouldn't change, you change for nobody, discuss the situation with your girlfriend and see what she thinks
I think it affect families by the actions the abuser is or was taken ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !
An alcohol abuser, or alcoholic, depending on the circumstances. A posh word is 'dipsomaniac'.
Abuse stems from the abuser, not from the relationship - so a change of partner won't in itself change much (or anything). An abuser needs appropriate counselling or therapy to deal with the problem. The first step of course is for him or her to acknowledge that there is a problem and that needs attending to. I hope this is some help. All the best - Joncey
Most abusers are serial offenders. The same pattern is likely to repeat itself.
It exist because the person being hurt stays in the relationship thinking the abuser will stop. Face reality this person has issues and they will not just up and change. I would advise anyone who is in an abusive relationship whether physical,emotional or verbal get out while you still can, because the abuser is not going to change magically.
yup. but you should get over him.
go to counciling
the abuser is called sadist & the victim is called masochist.
it shows that the abuser tries to be the more dominant in the relationship.
Give him time. He will.
I think the key word here is ABUSER. He is doing it to draw you back in, hurt you, throw you into confusion and to keep abusing you, which it seems is working. Do not let him back in.
No the abuser does not love that person they love controlling and abusing that person and that's it. It is difficult for there to be love in an abusive relationship. The abuser can not truly give love or receive it because he or she is mentally disabled. The abusive personality is a mental disorder and the abuser needs to seek psychiatric help. An abusive relationship is not a healthy one and no matter what the abuser says, he or she can not love you, it is obsession and control that drives an abusive partner.
Because he is a user and needs a new "victim" to abuse to make himself feel superior again.
Abuser of what? drugs or you? Convince them to go to anger management, or rehab. talk to them and try to make them stop.