What should you do if you recently ended an affair with a married man and he broke your heart and you really want to tell his wife and there are no children involved?

Answer 1

This man's wife will eventually catch on to his infidelity. If you really do not know this woman then I would let it be her problem, especially if you did not know he was married at first. Her husband had an obligation to her not to violate their marriage, not you. Not to mention his wife will probably blame you and your former lover will hate you for ruining his marriage (even though he was the one who ruined it). Although I'm sure his wife would like to know, you would get nothing but more problems by telling her. In my opinion, you were in the wrong for having a relationship with someone you knew was married. Don't compound your wrong by ruining this other woman's life even further just to satisfy your sense of vengeance. ---- Do not be selfish. She is not your business. She wil probably find out sooner or later without you. If you tell her........You will feel guilty for screwing up her life, and you can not live with that. If you could you would not have posted this question. This question is a test of your own conscience. You have one. Why tax it more that you already have. Let fate work its own magic.