Try doing something different and exciting, instead of the usual wrapped-up-in-a-box gift. It would be fun and memorable to have a magician or cosplay super heroes at a birthday party. Try going to bit.ly/1ICWULL to browse some really cool performers that an 11 year old boy would love.
is it a boy or a girl
xbox live membership
timezone!! or go to a themepark
get them a scooter, football, Wii or Xbox game
you could wish something like... i wish that he and i will be together or something. or wish that you and your boyfriend will be in a good relationship. but you honestly dont need someone's opinion to decide on something important like a wish on your birthday. just wish something good will happen to you and your boyfriend. or if you want you can wish something that your boy friend has wanted for a long time!
If you cant think of any thing else have you considered a present and birthday card.
pinatas, home bowling, scavenger hunts, etc.
mabe skating or an holtel party wat ever he likes
Money
just hang with ur friends that's the best party
at an arcade
Boots a gun