I've been in a realtionship with this guy for 1 year and 1 month and i keep thinking he is the love of my life but he has cheated on me twice that i know of but i keep taking him back. he says he has changed and so i take him back and then he is all sweet and stuff for a couple months then it goes back to the same way it was him being mean and rude and abusing me and then he cheats on me and then i find out or he just tells me, i cry and stuff he says he's sorry and that he loves me and that we will be together forever and i believe him and the cycle keeps on going and i can't get out of it. I've cought him saying sexual things to other girls God only knows how many times all my friend tell me that i need to break up with him but i can't i WANT him to change but he's not going to and i see that but i just can't let him go. this one time i was at his house and he was showing me somthing on the computer and a picture poped up of a girl in a very slutty outfit saying"hey babe i love you" and i just blew it off like i never saw it. why do i keep doing this i really need someone to help me and tell me what i need to do. i thought that maybe if i find another guy that i would be able to let him go easier but i tried that back around Christmas and i ended up cheating on that guy with the abusive cheating boyfriend i was trying to get away from. its like i keep falling for his tricks and he is just playing me. he's gone away to work at a camp this summer for 8 weeks straight and he told me the other day when he called that he is working with all girls.....he's doing a wrangaling job and all the other wrangalers are girls. idk what to do i know he is gonna cheat on me but it's like i can't break up with him even know i know its gonna happen i feel that if i do break up with him just for the summer that he is gonna find someone else and I'm gonna be alone....i know i have alot of problems. i just need someone to tell me what to do.....please help me
Well...are you dating this girl? Cuz if you are, I don't give good advice to really messed up people. That's your relationship with this girl; is messed up, cuz YOUR messed up.
Try to get to remember how it was before her friend messed it up
that you're a very messed up person, don't.
You dont its just messed up if its not to be they will find out in time if it is then ur interfering with a relationship.
It is just her way of saying " i don't love you anymore"
Because society has shunned them for decades and it has been just since the 1960's up that things have gotten better for them. They are no more messed up than straight people and their relationship. If you don't believe me then hit the 'Relationship' topic on this board and see for yourself.
My advice would be to see a therapist. Sounds messed up
there are many ways a relationship can be messed up one way is not trusting your partner if he or she has not giving you a reason not to then that can really mess it up jealousy is another way or not fully tryinq your all
good but the war messed it up
An acronym for messed up is a fault, mistake or error.
It is not the world that is messed up, but the people who live in it. If there were no 'messed up' people, than the world would be nearly perfect.
your password is messed up and the email is messsed up too