What do you do when you know a girl likes you but you are too shy to approach her and talk to her?

Answer 1

Most young people are shy (even older people) and to ask someone out on a date is almost like torture because everyone is afraid of rejection. It's very normal to feel like this and also feel butterflies in your stomach or even feel sick to your stomach. You are not the only one who feels like this. You have to trick your mind. What you keep telling yourself is the truth ... "Most people are very nervous and shy asking out a girl, but don't forget ... she's usually nervous too! My 2nd husband was 22 years old. He was shy and couldn't bring himself to ask me out. I knew his best friend Tom, and Tom and my husband and myself would go out to a pub, or a local club and just have fun. Soon my 2nd husband began to relax and was able to ask me out. There is nothing wrong with that at all, and actually most girls prefer shy guys instead of the brassy, know-it-alls. Because you are shy doesn't mean you are weak. So, perhaps try getting your best buddy to help you a little (if he has a girlfriend) to go double-dating with you. Just walk up to that girl and ask her out. Have a plan like going to the movies and that you will be going with another couple. Good luck Marcy usually woman or girls likes a man who has confidence to go up to her and say whatever is on his mind but if you cant find the courage to go up to her it might not be meant to be but if it is she will come to you when the time is right. another option you could always ask a friend to go up to her and tell her how you feel.