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I don't think it's smart to talk to this other woman who had the affair with your husband. I know if you do, it will give you some closure on why he cheated on you. You will not learn anything useful. Even if she was gracious or friendly and give you all the tiny details about your husband, how would that help you? This mistress doesn't owe you nothing, even if she was the party to your husband's infidelity but he is the one who cheated on you not the other woman. Your husband made the vows of fidelity to you, not his mistress. He brought her into your marriage and put you in this situation
You will not gain anything if you choose to talk to her, so if I were you I wouldn't. I am not supporting the mistress in any case, but I was in your shoes before and take my words for it, even she didn't say no to my husband, it was him who started the relationship.
he is trying to make his self look good for cheating with mistress
Jamie
she meant that it is because the wife of a cheating husband is trying to do such things that the mistress of his husband realize that what she did was wrong. ANSWER: I think the wife is telling the mistress that she can have him, so she will not have to deal with pain and bad memories. And letting him go is her way to forgive him.
ask him
Short answer:NO!
It depends on the people involved
Most mistress' do not tell the wife she is cheating with the wife's husband and the only reason for that would be to pour salt into an open wound. Mistress' are losers and will never be at the top of the list in any man's life. He may take her on vacation, dine out, go to the theater, etc., but he will generally go back to his wife or, if she finds out and they divorce the percentage is very low the husband will continue a relationship or marry his mistress.
Yes, the wife can feel like a mistress when her husband is having an affair because he may well either love his wife; love both women or, he wants to continue with a sexual relationship with his wife and the adventure of having a sexual relationship that is exciting with his mistress. A wife that puts up with her husband's cheating is an enabler and if she allows it to go on then she is not only stripping herself of her dignity and self worth, but she her husband will not respect her for putting up with it. 'You' are in control of this situation and sit down with your husband and tell him you are not putting up with his cheating and he either goes to marriage counseling with you; drops the mistress or you are divorcing him. This should get his attention!
yes! of course!
Ask him did he do it , and if he didn't go on Jerry Springer .
Jesse James happened.Sandra Bullock's husband, Jesse James, was caught cheating on her with mistress Michelle 'bombshell' McGee, also a tattoo'd porn model.
Quite simple love, she's probably scared and feeling awkward because she didn't realize and expect that you know or even have her cell number. Now all hell break loose, ( excuse my language) and I bet that your husband probably know already what you have done. If he comes home, be calm act like nothing is going on, then wait if his going to talk to you or not. Just know that his mistress already told your husband what you sent to her. Don't let him manipulate you by telling you that he made a mistakes. Good luck..