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Does a cheating husband start to mis the ex mistress after 1 year affair?
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Is it really cheating if you are cheating on the one you are having an affair with?
Yes...? To be having an affair you have to be cheating to start with, so I'm not sure why it matters at that point anyway, but whether it's your mistress or your wife (or their male equivalents), you're still deceiving them with your actions. "To cheat" is simply "to be unfaithful." You can be unfaithful to anybody with whom you have a relationship that involves any kind of trust. You're cheating. At least two-fold.
Does husband still love mistress even tho mistress called off 5 year affair and called his wife?
There's a lot of scenario that you need to look at. If your husband wasn't the one that broke the relationship with his mistress, then his feelings for her will hunt him for a while, knowing the years they spent together. You ask yourself why his mistress called you, after all this years, could it be that your husband promise her that he will divorce you or even move out so he can be with her. Maybe your husband is been promising his mistress from the start and never done anything about it, so she got fed up. Even if this is what's going on with them, I think you need to tell your husband to move out. Don't let him manipulate you by saying sorry or he didn't mean to do it. 5 years affair is five years and no one can justify what he did with you. Don't believe everything your husband and his mistress is telling you. This is not your problem but his, so it's time for you to kick him out so this issue will not be in your hand.
How do you deal with the hurt when you had an affair with a married man and he is back with his wife but you feel depressed because you still love him and all of you live in the same small town?
* As tempting as it can be for some women it's not a good idea to have an affair with a married man because he will do one of two things ... go back to her wife or breakup with his mistress to be free to do as he wishes. There is an extremely low percent of men with mistress' that will end up in marriage. You had the affair because you are unhappy with yourself (or your husband if you are married) and it's time for you to reflect upon why you are so unhappy. There are always solutions to most problems. It isn't going to be easy because you live in a small town, but you will have to decide to move on so you are free to decide what you want out of life. He has made his decision to stay with his wife. Don't sit around moping and start going out with friends and dating or, if married start working on your marriage problems. Whether or not you have a boyfriend or husband you are still cheating ... you are having an affair behind this man's wife's back!
Should you leave your husband after he took his mistress on vacation?
The fact you knew he took his mistress on vacation means you are enabling his behavior of letting him have an affair in the first place. He should be taking you on a well deserved vacation and not his mistress. It's time you stood up for yourself and, if you have children it is well worth it to communicate how you feel to your husband and tell him the only way he can save the marriage is by going for marriage counseling. If he does not agree to do this and continues to see his mistress then you need to get your self respect back and start looking after any children you may have. If you don't have children then file for a divorce if your husband refuses to seek marriage counseling.
How you know if your husband is cheating?
He will start leaveing home for trips to see his girl and he will start acting weird
How mistress ruin the relationship of husband and wife?
mistress can be a big ruiner to good relationships. ANSWER: Yes a mistress is part of a broken family between man and his wife. Unfortunately it's not all the mistress ( sorry I am a wife), fault and start the messing around but the married man is. Reality check here, married men are the one that search or look for other person we called mistress. Some mistress are single, some are married but still become the other woman. Because we love our husband most of us will blame the other woman, for ruining our safe, normal, and comfortable life. It is wrong because its our husband who started all. It's our husband that meet the other woman, hide the relationship, and yes having a second life away from us. The only thing we can say to those women who are having an affair to a married men is learn to say no._" No thank you, your are married " and I deserve to meet a single man.
Why would a married man tell his mistress that he doesnt want to talk to her after he got caught cheating when she's been his long time friend for years and he sees her at work everyday?
background: married man and mistress were in a long term affair that was disclosed to wife. married man and wife separated but married man and mistress remained in contact the entire time. married vehemently denied to mistress that he wanted to reconcile with wife until the wife agreed to reconcile. ANSWER: First thing first love, as you already knew that this man is married from the start. You believed to everything he told you. You could have said no to him, but you didn't. Did you think married men who are having an affair behind their wives back will tell the truth, they will not. Most married men who cheated will never leave their family, because for years they built something together, and for them to loose and start all over again will not be their option. So if they can keep their life before they have this hunger for another woman, they rather stay with the wives and have a mistress on the side. Reality check here, he didn't have to tell you that he wanted to work on his marriage. He didn't even owe you no explanation what he is doing. Being a mistress has some perks, we only a part time lover when they need us. The rest is for his wife..
Why would a married guy start to wear his wedding ring for 2 weeks after getting caught cheating hide it from his ex mistress then take it off and still hide his hand from her?
Because he's stuped. And because he wants to be with the ex-mistress.
If your husband is talking a lot with a female coworker on the phone and youcall her to ask her questions and she acts like she don't know him is this a problem?
Most definitely - sounds like the start of an affair or they are already having an affair, confront your husband or her face to face.
Husband admits to cheating?
I think that is the right move, but my question is, did you caught his affair or he came forward and tell you about it. Now the limbo will start, all the question will come out from you. You will have this betrayal and trust issue with your husband. One thing though, do not let your husband tell you " it just happen" or I'm sorry I didn't mean to do it." This are what most married men will say when they get caught. If you think about it, he is not a tiny sorry for having an affair nor it just happen, because he did planned what he did.This will be up to you, either you want to forgive him and he might do it again, or move on without him in your life. It's not hard being a divorce, I did it because the man I married had affair to...
How does the mistress feel after the affair is found out?
ANSWER: Well, I've never been a mistress, but I could use my husband's mistress and now ex-mistress. But before I go on, just want to write one thing that really annoyed or upset the man that I married. He asked me not to call the woman he had an affair with, his ex girlfriend, mistress and even a lover, "Ditto" right? To continue, how does the mistress feel when the affair has been discovered? From my own experience, my husband said to me that she understood from the start that he doesn't want to break his family for our kid's sake, devoted right but this conversation they had was after he slept with her. To make the story short, his mistress is still part of our life, but if you ask him he will tell you that he already washed his hands when it comes to her. This woman is pissed and hurt, not betrayed, wives are the one that feel betrayed. For 3 years now his ex mistress has done everything possible, so my husband will know who he messes around with. At first he blamed me because I humiliated her, duh! if I'm not carrying his last name and if he didn't betray and used my secret to her, my life will not be this way. Anyway she send text, email, regular letters, passing through our house, will shout in front of my home, left roses in front of our front door for him, harass my 2 daughters inside the face book, gave me the voice recorded she made while they were having sex. This are some of the things that she does, and now writing me a very nice letter asking me for something. But it differ to individual, but this is mine so I guess mistress has different kinds of tantrum
Is your husband cheating if he is having a fantasy relationship over the phone?
Of course it's cheating and it's just as bad as talking to some girl on a porn site over the Internet. When you are talking about sex or getting cozy with someone else other than your mate then it's cheating and you don't have to have a sexual relationship to deem it cheating. Given half a chance the person doing this would have an affair. Start kicking your husband's butt on this one! I personally wouldn't tolerate it. Be sure and tell him if he feels like looking at porn there are magazines he can buy (it's normal for men to look at SOME porn if they so choose.)
