no you cant sorry
Your husband has the right to raise the baby if he is the father. By law a man needs to support that child till he or she turn legal age. The only question now is, if your husband knows about the child will he leave you and move in with his mistress and his baby. He is in a big mess right now if that baby is his..
If your husband made one mistake in having an affair and has not cheated before that or after the affair then the child is part of him and also the biological mother. You have two options: #1 You can accept the child when and if he has custody of the child and make that child part of the whole family or #2 let him see his child if he wants too (he at least should pay child support) but see the child away from home. The decision will have to be discussed between you and your husband.
i would tell the husband its 'me or her' and let him choose!!
He same if you did it instead. Most states are no fault.
It is a heartache when one finds out their husband has a mistress let alone also getting her pregnant. Both of you took wedding vows and at this point in your life communication is your best weapon. You need to sit down with your husband and ask if he loves his mistress. If he says it was just a fling (which it often is) and he does not love her then be sure he is man enough to support his own child, but, be sure that the baby is actually his by DNA analysis. If your husband has not cheated before then it would worth your while to seek marriage counseling to try and save your marriage. If your husband disagrees with you then tell him he has broken his bond of trust with you and you accept nothing less and if he persists on not getting help that you will file for divorce.
Since your husband got the mistress pregnant this is good grounds for divorce. Your husband is entirely responsible for paying child support and this is called being responsible for your own actions. Your husband is fully to blame as he either started the affair or he could have said no to the woman. Therefore, the mistress who is pregnant has every right to keep her child. Your husband has created a great deal of pain for you or any children involved in your family; he lied and disrupted your lives and cost the most precious thing of all ... trust in each other. Most people who cheat will do it again.
my husband has a another child in other girl my husband accusing me child abused with no exact evidence.what should i do?
child always the child .. who came out of you ..whom are you responsible for
no.
from child support enforcement
Accept them for what and who they are, give them support when the need it.