In general, no.
Affairs are entered into consensually by two people, knowing that there is a third person being cheated on. There is an unwritten contract between you and your lover to keep it secret. If you don't like that, you shouldn't have started the affair.
If you are now feeling angry with the lover, and want to strike back or harm him/her, there is a strong temptation to reveal all to hurt him. But such vindictiveness reflects more on the immaturity of the angry person (you) than on the lover.
If possible, deal with the issue between the two of you.
And in future, avoid affairs. Affairs suit few people, and usually end in tears.
You do not tell your husband's girlfriend's employer anything. The employer is a businessman and is not interested in the private affairs of his employees unless it interferes with their work performance. It should be your husband you are going after and if you feel the relationship is over then file for divorce. Your husband is the one that started this affair because he either provoked the affair or he could have said 'no' if she suggested having an affair with him. Put the blame where it belongs ... your husband!
No.
They are usually sore because it has ended if they were the one that wanted it to continue and generally they want to expose the affair and tell them anything they can.
Your husband should not be anything to his ex girlfriend and she should not be in your lives. It's time to sit down calmly and communicate with your husband that this is unacceptable behavior. If he argues you the point then tell him to make a choice 'you or her.'
ANSWER:You mean to tell me you don't know what to call a man who's having an affair with a married woman? Very funny indeed, ok then we call them boyfriend, and lovers to, and that's it.
tell her what thing.
That is a decision you are going to have to make. Understand that it may destroy the relationship with your lover. And you better be sure that it is an affair and not something that you are creating in your mind. Better to talk with your lover rather than send accusations out.
She is you r girlfriend you should be proud that she is and tell them
Yes! You should tell her, you should also tell him how that made you feel. Think about it, you'd want to be told!!!!
tell her
My girlfriend would not tell me to do that. If yours would, then perhaps you should ask her why. Or perhaps you should reconsider how much you really want her as a girlfriend.
Talk to your girlfriend tell her what you've done and see what your relationship with her is left with some people can work it out after one has cheated and others can't if it doesn't you better at least learn to keep it in your pants after breaking your girlfriends heart don't let her find out any other way you be man enough to tell her what you've done she'll at least have some respect for you that way...