Is it fun being a lesbian?

Answer 1

• Lesbians don't do so just for the sake of fun! They are like the rest of us needing someone in their lives only their sexual orientation is different than heterosexuals.If you are a straight person then don't be pressured to try bisexuality or becoming a lesbian. Being gay is still a very controversial debate in society and it's not an easy road to take if you are a true lesbian.

• Being a lesbian is very wonderful and fulfilling and beautiful and comforting and sensual and emotional. Between lesbians there can be radical equality, mystical unions, love, cuddling, sexuality, warmth, nurturing, support, humor, understanding, patience, healing, safety, community, female energy, and total intimacy.

• Fulfilling and on more of an emotional level than being with a man if you are a true lesbian. I feel more connected and understood than I even did with a man. We also understand our little tiffs and attitudes and what it means more than the man. Plus the sex is great considering we have the same parts ;-). But I do have to say the public eye can be quite harsh. Public affection can't/won't happen in most places unless you want some horrid looks and comments. It can also be hard to come out to family, most likely not friends, and if your friends dismiss you, you don't need them. Being a lesbian is wonderful, if it the right way for you.

• If you are a true lesbian and not a want to be it's better that with guys because a girl knows what a girl wants. It's nice to treat her the way you want to be treated, and sex can be more gratifying if the two are lesbians. She knows where all your sensitive spots are; she knows when you're in the mood, and women's ejaculation is so good.

• You don't have the social rules like if you want sex you don't need to pretend that you'd love to invite someone to dinner...or you don't have to pretend with your other friends that you love the other person enough to make out and you can be you (if you are a lesbian! You experiment equality! It's awesome when you totally come out.

• If two people are lesbians then their experiences can certainly be gratifying, but don't buy into the fact if you are straight and feel becoming a lesbian you will have a faultless relationship. Having lesbian friends they have been honest with me in saying that when two women are having their menses cycle it's like putting two Pitt Bulls into a sack! Lesbians are not much different than straight couples and have their problems and their arguments and some cheat on each other. Others fall out of love and move on. If you're straight remain straight and for those who are lesbians then try to find the right woman for a good relationship because sex isn't the number one factor in a good relationship and it's loyalty, honesty, staying power, and good communication skills just like straight people have to learn.