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  • Men who decide to have a mistress do so mainly because the excitement of secretly meeting that mistress and the long and short of it is ... it is all about sex. The mistress is often used and seldom does a married man ever marry his mistress. The wife generally wins out if she catches him cheating or, even if he and his wife divorce most men seldom marry their mistress and prefer their freedom. Of course he will think of the sexual relationship he had with you even when he is home, but sex and cheating does not mean he loves his mistress. Men who have mistresses are often arrogant; self indulged and selfish and have little regard as to how he could hurt his wife and use the mistress.
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Q: If a married man told his ex mistress when I see you I am going to think about what we did does that mean he does not think about it when he goes home knowing he was caught cheating?
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Information you need to know about the other woman in your husbands affair so that you can move forward?

Forward where? Out of your husband's life by divorcing him, or trying to fight the war with your husband's mistress? All you need to know is the true facts that he's actually having an affair and if you've caught him then you have to decide if you love him enough to sit down like two adults and communicate both your feelings and why your marriage has been reduced to his cheating. If you aren't happy with his excuses then you need to stand on your own two feet (you are in control of YOU) and at least get a separation before divorce. Separations are often a good idea if the couple is having marriage problems, one of the mates has made a mistake, or there are children involved. Separation lets each partner have head space to rethink their actions and often one or both of partners realize how much they miss each other once the chips are laid on the table. Making decisions while angry seldom works out and it can cause a lot of regrets in the future. If you don't know for sure he is cheating then get a girlfriend and follow him one night. That's how I caught my first husband cheating. The rest is up to you. There is no need to know all the particulars of the woman he is seeing and instead of being angry at her, be angry at your husband!


Why is it when i do bad things i always get caught?

Because it's stupid to do bad things, and who cares if you get caught - you deserve it. Stop doing 'bad things', and you will not be 'caught' again.


What is accaughtt in lateral thinking?

accaughtt is caught in the act because ac(caught)t there you go :) <3


Why a mate that cheats starts to accuse their partner of cheating?

A mate that cheats and is caught cheating is in full denial because they are angry and humiliated they got caught and that is the only reason they are humiliated ... their secret is out! Some people who cheat may have had one or both parents who cheated; they could have been cheated on by one or more girlfriends or boyfriends in their lifetime and feel that most people cheat anyway so why can't they. Anyone who cheats on their partner no matter what they reason is spineless; lacks self confidence; is immature and lacks empathy towards their partner and is using them as a 'safe place' where they know they can still have a secure lifestyle. The partner who cheats has the option to realize they no longer love their mate and should be honest about it and leave the relationship or at least separate before starting divorce proceedings and go to marriage counseling if they both feel they want to save the marriage. If the partner still cheats then their mate should take their secure and safe place away from them and kick them out. Cheating on a partner causes that bond of trust (essential in a good marriage or any relationship) and trust is not easily earned back.


How does a narcissist react when caught cheating?

They blame you. You weren't good enough or special enough.It was all your fault that he or she took their clothes off and had sex with someone else. They may also make comments such as " no one else will want you or put up with you" if you dare to complain about their unacceptable treatment. The reality is they will cheat again so don't let them erode your self esteem. That's what they want.

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If a married man stops talking to his mistress after he gets caught cheating would karma come back on him for it?

mos def


Would a married man have fantasies about being with his ex mistress when he stopped seeing her because he got caught cheating 4 mths ago?

depends how hot she isANSWER;I think so especially if this married man fell in love with his mistress before he got caught cheating. Lots will be going on in his head, mostly the fun he had with her..


What does it mean when married man got caught cheating and moved in with mistress?

When a married man gets caught cheating by his wife and then moves in with his mistress nine chances out of ten he is immature; selfish and if he loved the mistress he would have had the fortitude to leave his wife before he got caught. A man who lives with his mistress after being caught cheating by his wife is afraid to be alone and it doesn't necessarily mean that he loves his mistress.ANSWER:It means that he loves his mistress, and probably he don't want to loose what they have together. But I think its good that he left you and live with her, you will have more freedom, you wouldn't have to remember the pain he gave you. And you wouldn't have to face him to remind you of what he did..


Should the mistress tell the wife of the affair?

No, keep cheating and dont get caught.


How would a married man feel knowing he sees his ex mistress everyday at work he hasn't talk 2 her since he got caught cheating but they were good friends b4 the affair started?

they would probally feel so guilty that they give up their job.


Does a mistress end up marrying the married man she is seeing?

Married men who cheat on their wives and have a mistress generally use the mistress for a sexual relationship; feeling the freedom he is not married to her and can either go back to his wife when he is bored with the mistress or, if he is caught cheating by his wife or he decides to divorce his wife then he would want him freedom and the statistics of a married man divorcing and marrying his mistress is very low; generally he just wants to do as he pleases and doesn't care if he hurts women along the way.


Why would a married guy start to wear his wedding ring for 2 weeks after getting caught cheating hide it from his ex mistress then take it off and still hide his hand from her?

Because he's stuped. And because he wants to be with the ex-mistress.


If a married man told his ex mistress after getting caught cheating he can't talk 2 her right now but wants to and when the ex mistress said y did your wife tell u that he said no then why couldn't he?

it's probably because he a, was already married, and b, someone's on his tail and he doesn't want them to find out


Why would a married man who never wore his wedding ring until after he got caught cheating try to hide it from his ex mistress?

it's like a back up plan. if he gets divorce he will goto his ex mistress. It not a 100 percent right there is a chance.


Why would a married man ask his mistress for nude pictures after they have been caught?

Clearly "being caught" was not the end of the relationship in his eyes. He's going to keep seeing the mistress.


What can you do to the mistress if you caught her cheating with your mate?

* Why go after the mistress! It should be your mate that you go after as they instigated the affair. You have a choice of splitting up if you are just going together or, if married you can sit down and discuss the problems in your marriage and try to work on a more successful marriage; separate from your spouse or divorce him.


After a married man gets caught cheating and tells his mistress that he cares about her and when she ask y he says because u've been friends for so long why would he tell her that?

So he wouldn't hurt her feelings and not get slapped