Tell him you are not interested. But (at least this is my preference) be blunt, don't tip toe around it, don't keep saying your busy just say "Sorry, I don't want to go out with you" maybe add that you would like to be friends if you really really want to be Tell him that although you're flattered, you're just not looking for a relationship right now. If you're just not interested in the guy, again, just tell him you're flattered, you just see him as more of a friend and you don't want to jeopardize the friendship. It's worked for me, the worst the guy could do is not talk to you again, in which case wasn't a real friend to begin with. Try to make light of the situation so it's not awkward for either of you.
You politely tell him that your not interested. Easy as pie.
Tell him nicely that u dont feel the same about him, you like someone else, its a bad time, i just want to be friends, or my parents wont let me date
Just say no thanks, I have another date. I am going with someone else.
you say your sorry but you are just not interested say it sweetly and nice. don't forget to say sorry
You nicely ask him out. If he says yes then on your date when you are alone tell him he is hot.
As hard as it sounds, don't dwell on it. Laugh it off. He's not much of a catch if he doesn't know how to turn you down nicely!! He simply wouldn't have been compatible with you if he didn't already have an interest in you. Also, he's not the only guy out there and not all guys want to date the same type of person. There is not one person who is universally attractive (both personality and appearance wise) to everyone; this guy, like everyone else, will get turned down at least once in his life.
It makes them upset because he likes her
While it is not usually normal to turn down a guy you like, it may be possible for a few reasons. For example, if you are moving away and you do not want to persue a long distance relationship, you may turn him down.
if you dont have feelings about him like if you dont want to date him ten ask him nicely if he can back off
narrow your question down!! possibly if a girl cheats on him or if she doesnt turn up to a date etc
Tell the guy that he's a really nice guy but he's just not your type.
If you do ask them what they think, if you don't say no as NICELY as you can