How do you know if your boyfriend is cheating?

Answer 1

One of the greatest ways to tell if your boyfriend is cheating is to just come straight out and confront him of what you suspect of him. If he gets angry when you confront him, its a big possibility that he is, but if he's calm.....it could just be you. Here's what I say though.....if you have to wonder about a guy, he's not the one for you. Just keep looking, you'll find him. I don't necessarily agree that wondering about a guy means he's not the one for you. I think people can bring alot of baggage into a relationship. Maybe she was cheated on in the past, and therefore fears it happening again. However, if you're wondering because you have evidence pointing in that direction, than, yes, maybe he's not the one for you. Anyway, there are many different signs a person is cheating on you. There are the obvious: being secretive, not around as much, change in behavior. == Then there are the not so obvious, like I experienced. A previous boyfriend cheated on me. It became obvious to me when, after a late night out drinking with the guys, he suddenly became very over the top sweet. He was showering me with compliments, telling me how wonderful and beautiful he thought I was. Not that this was totally out of the ordinary, but the way he looked at me and the amount of times he was saying these things became kind of suspicious. Of course I asked him and he confessed. He said he made a huge mistake, and through it, he realized how great I really was. So, basically there are many different signals aside from the obvious ones! == First, Ask them. If you don't trust them then there's a red flag already. If you have suspision, then you must also have a reason, or number or reasons for suspision. Often times, your gut feeling is correct. If you're not certain, start keeping a journal of the partner's behavioral patterns and write down changes in his/her behavior/life style patterns. If there is a significant difference over time without a reasonable explaination, then they have something to hide. Protect your interests; you need to watch out for yourself. Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. Spouse's co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence. Stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you. Buys a cell phone and doesn't let you know. Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID. You get calls where the caller hangs up when you answer. Becomes "accusatory," asking if you are being true to him, usually out of guilt. Stops wearing his wedding ring but always has an excuse as to why. He suddenly stops having sex with you. Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub. Is away from home, either nights or on trips, more than previously. Picks fights in order to leave the house. Seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy" and easily moved to anger. The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off. Personality/behavorial changes. Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.The telltale signs of a cheater? Having to ask that question in the first place. == The fact that you found stains doesn't really mean he is cheating, maybe he went to a strip club and one of the girls there really did it for him. If you don't believe this to be the case then there is a very good chance that indeed he did cheat on you as he wouldn't have those stains otherwise. Ask him If you're asking, I'd say you already have some suspicions. Has his time spent with you dropped off? Is he receiving mysterious phone calls or taking his phone calls in private, when he used to chat on the phone in front of you? Does he give hasty, general excuses about going off to see a friend or go in to work, when he used to discuss what he did when you weren't around in more detail? Does he seem to screw up details or seemingly forget where he was at certain times when you ask him how he's been? Being evasive, secretive. Lying to you or making excuses about everything, about where he is going to where he has been. I;m not saying stalk him but be cautious there couldbe a good reason. But if he is being secretive and avoids you and his behaviour is funny than dump him because if he cheats you once he'll do it again.

Answer 2

you don't. but if he is nice to tell you your Lucky. and you can make him jellos