How do you get your dream girl to like you?

Answer 1

Let's face it flirting is an art, and once you have it the power is yours to do what you will! We offer you the top ten ways to be a super flirt.

1: Wear red: And lots of it! Red is often known as a power colour, it attracts attention and as well as that, just makes you look damn HOT. Everyone looks good in red. Blondes can go for a brighter shade, whereas those with olive skin can pull off the rich ruby reds. Think about smart, sexy, creative women like Gwen Stefani, who always has on a slick of red lipstick and learn to think scarlet!

2: Smile... a lot: Just as a picture can paint a thousand words, a smile can speak volumes. Guys often say that the first thing they fell in love with about their girlfriend was her smile. There's no need to practice in front of a mirror, you want it to be natural. Think about a happy occasion that you've had, or if your life has been particularly blue lately, fantasise and next time you see cute bookshop boy, flash those shiny white canines!

3: Eyes have it: Your peepers are the windows to your soul. Practice making eye contact with the one you like. It can be hard for the shy ones amongst us, but the best bet to catch someone's attention is to hold their gaze for at least half a minute. Enough time to ensure he knows you're interested.

4: Touchy, touchy: Humans express their feelings through touch. Give him a gentle shove when he makes a joke, rest your hand lightly on his arm, give him a hug and squeeze goodbye, you'll soon have him eating out of your hand!

5: Be of good humour: I don't mean have stock standard jokes that you crack every time you meet someone you're interested in, that's just stupid. Just be ready to laugh lots and have tolerance for other peoples' quirks. If the situation is appropriate and you have something funny to say, say it. Don't worry about coming off as being silly…most guys love silly girls, it means they're more real!

6: Sky high heels: Bring on the Blahniks, baby! Or if you can't afford Manolo or Jimmy Choos, scour the cheapie places like the No.1 Shoe Warehouse for a pair of heels. The more straps and bling, or unusual the colour, the better. There's something about your posture when you're wearing heels that's just so sexy, it makes you more aware of your body and how you move. So step in it!

7: Perfume Queen: You know how you really appreciate the boys who smell nice? Well, boys like girls who wear a dab of scent. Don't pour the stuff on, you'll overpower the dude. Just spritz on a light, fruity perfume (studies have shown they work best) at strategic places such as behind your ears, or on the pulse point of your wrist, and waft your way to him.

8: Conversation starters: It helps if you are an open-minded, curious person. To be interesting, all you have to be is interested. Keep in mind that guys have a low tolerance threshold for makeup talk, so make sure you know something about the world beyond shopping. A lot of girls like sports as well, or how about novels, movies or even a bit of history and politics? If in doubt, stick to neutral topics such as food. Everyone likes eating, and it leaves him room to invite you out on a dinner date…

9: If in doubt… Make it up! If you are not out for a boyfriend and just want some fun, a friend of mine recommends making up secret identities. Have you always wanted to be a pilot? Speak with a heavy Russian accent and tell him you're a former USSR jet fighter. The more ridiculous your story is the better. Of course…he might not want to play along, in which case ditch the boring snore and go after someone more fun!

10: Be yourself: Ahh, you knew that was going to be in here somewhere! Clichés are often used so much because they're true. All this flirting will go nowhere if you feel as if you have to put on an Oscar-winning act all the time. Don't try and anticipate what kind of girl he'll want, instead - just be the kind of girl you want to be, the rest will fall into place.