How do gay or lesbians realize thay are gay?

Answer 1

There are several ways in which they may realize their sexuality. For example, they feel more attracted to, and would rather be in a relationship with a person of their own sex, or would prefer to be sexually active with their own gender.

Answer 2

Realizing one's sexual orientation as gay or lesbian can happen through a variety of ways, such as feelings of attraction towards the same gender, experiences with romantic relationships, or self-reflection on one's feelings and desires. It often involves a process of self-discovery and acceptance.

Answer 3

Most gay people realize it at puberty, but some take a little longer to "connect the dots".