How can you get a beautiful girl to like you when you are ugly?

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Getting a Beautiful Girl To Like YouSounds like you have more problems with confidence than actually being ugly. I haven't seen an ugly human being in the 63 years I've been on earth. Well some people are lucky to be born one of the "beautiful people" it's what's inside that counts. We all come in different shapes, sizes, some pretty, some plain and some pleasant looking. We all don't have to be raving beauties or be super handsome. Actually, "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" so look around at other couples and realize that either the girl isn't a raving beauty and the guy isn't all that handsome. You're being too hard on yourself.

You need to build that confidence level up and let your inner self shine through. Personally, most young girls I know love a guy with a quick sense of wit and loads of fun (in good taste of course.) You can be the most beautiful or handsome thing on two legs, but without a personality none of that counts.

Get off your butt, go get a new funky hair cut (not too wild) get a few new up-to-date clothes. I go into the "in place" for my nephews clothes and get the young salesperson to help me pick out the "in" styles. So, if I can do it so can you. Do something that is rewarding to yourself, like perhaps joining a car club, sports club, volunteering, etc. You are just as precious in this world as anyone else.

Go for it! Ask that girl out! Be sure when you ask her out that she is alone and not with a bunch of her friends. If younger and in high school or college, kids in groups often can act like a bunch of morons and follow the pack and sometimes they say things they don't mean. If you never ask her out you will never know what you missed. Be yourself!

P.S. By the way, some of the hottest young movie stars out there aren't all that good looking and the good looking ones often marry people that are pleasant looking. It's the way they present themselves on-screen. Consider the world on-screen because that's all it is. We act through life to fit in certain situations.

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• I have had this problem time and time again with my boyfriend. He doesn't think he is good looking. He thinks my previous boyfriends are all better looking than him. The truth is - beauty IS in the eye of the beholder !

My friends don't think he is good looking, but to be honest, I don't care. To me he is the most beautiful person I have ever met, and that shines from the inside out!

There is truly more to a person than their looks and the right girl will see this beauty in you too.

On a practical level, be yourself with this girl, let your personality shine through and try to be more confident in your good points.

What you are saying is that you don't want the girl to care if YOU are ugly but you will only date a beautiful girl?

Why not get to know some "average" looking girls for their personality, like you are expecting back?

Ugly is as ugly does. Girls are much more likely to go for guys who make them feel good about themselves than guys who look good.

If the girl really is beautiful, she'll be tired of guys liking her for her looks and complimenting her appearance. Trust me, she's heard it all before. You need to compliment her on her personality or other little things that are unique to her; show her that you can see past her appearance and like other things about her too. The girl can't help the way she looks, it's genetics, saying she's beautiful to her won't really make her feel special. Just because she is beautiful however, doesn't mean she'll only go out with ridiculously good looking guys. Just because you see that in films doesn't make it true! The girl will have the same view as other girls, they sometimes end up with better looking guys merely because they have the confidence to approach the girl when guys with less self confidence think she will turn them down. The 'hottest' girl in the club often goes home alone because guys are too shy to try. Go for it, she'll admire your confidence!

Simple. Be wealthy. Win the lottery or similar and you will be beating them off with a stick.

well this is what i would do if she//he is the kind of girl//boy that doesnt like boys//girls for who they are and just what they look like then he or she is NOT the girl//boy for u