Of course being secretive with a guy means cheating! If you are having secret meetings with a guy but you are already going out or married to another then you are most definitely cheating. Y'all, this is so not fair to your boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband. If you don't think that your boyfriend/girlfriend is in to you or doesn't make you happy then don't go out with them. If you are really having marriage problems then go see a counselor. But first you need to tell your spouse what is going on. It isn't fair to keep secrets from them. Especially one like that.
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I think not, especially when it comes to man in general. In scale of 1-10 nine percent of men do not talk or share what they're thinking. So you can not say that your husband or boyfriend is cheating. if you ask why they hardly talk they will tell you they don't know how to show their feelings aka emotion. And don't feel bad nor concern, the man I married also have this manners of not talking, he rather keep it for himself rather than come to me and talk about it.
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