Can an 11 year old girl date a 17 year old boy?

Answer 1

An 11 year old and a 17 year old probably don't have a lot in common. He's close to adulthood and the girl isn't even a teenager yet. Professionals generally consider a 4-5 year relationship between post-pubescent individuals to be within a normal range. 11 and 17 is not within what professionals would call "normal".

An 11 year old girl and a 17 year old boy probably have really different ideas about what dating is. See the related question "What does the term DATING really mean?"

The only way for it to be a healthy relationship is a big-brother little-sister type relationship. The boy has a lot of responsibilities in this sort of relationship and it should not be sexual IN ANY WAY.

If an 11/17 year old relationship becomes sexual, it becomes illegal. The guy risks trashing his whole life. If a 17 year old takes that kind of a risk, he is not someone an 11 year old should hang out with - ever.

An 11 year old girl who becomes involved in a sexual relationship is risking her entire life too. Pregnancy at that age could keep you from having a happy family later in life, economically, psychologically and physically.

An 11 year old who desires a sexual relationship with a 17 year old boy is almost certainly looking for someone to take care of her because she is not being taken care of at home. She has probably been sexually abused at home or by someone she trusted and sees sex as a way to get someone to take an interest in her and take care of her.

What she will find is that the 17 year old is also going to take advantage of her for sex. The best thing any child who has been abused can do is find an adult they can trust and talk to them. A caring adult (pastor, teacher, physician) can help a child figure out how bad their situation really is and how to deal with it. No real man or woman wants to take advantage of a child, so anyone suggests any sort of sexual contact is not to be trusted.

:She could, but the parents of the 11 year old should have their heads examined if they even consider or allow this to happen.

Answer 2

It is not appropriate for a 17-year-old to date an 11-year-old due to the significant age difference and developmental gaps between them. It may also raise legal concerns depending on the laws in the specific location. Relationships should be between individuals who are closer in age and developmental stage for them to be healthy and balanced.

Answer 3

/// Hello.

So uhm for some introductions first, I'm an 11 year old and crushing on a 17 year old turning 18 soon.. Iknow this is a bit out of topic but i feel that he likes me to, and it depends on his/her personality, but when it comes to dating that because if your gonna date someone nearly to adulthood that's just kinda risky. I heard that if he ever made sexual contract or any stuff like that he will go to jail.. and for you might get pregnant..accidentally. Well base on my experience if your gonna date someone older/younger than you its better that you guys should just be bestfriends or any stuff that wont get you guys in trouble. If he ever made a move on you make sure it should not be in any bottom parts yk but holding hands and hugging is fine. On the other hand what about your parents? will they accept if u guys are dating?, I have strict parents for me they maybe wont accept the guy that I like and want to date lol but anyways crush is crush so as long as I just like him they're ok with it (not dating). Anyways my advice is just don't make any sexual stuff and also beware of the dangers and risks and also make sure he is kind and respectful towards your decesion ///. (it means he is a good guy if he's like that. : ) ). Although for us (11 year olds) were kinda too young to date but if you ever feel really ready to DATE then u must really mean it go for it ig :).(if you are an 11 year old)

Answer 4

i think so