Why does your girlfriend crave attention from guys?

Answer 1

OK, I'll try to explain this as best as possible. OK been with my girlfriend for 9 months, I'm 23 she's 21. Now she is gorgeous so shes always had guys and ex boyfriends around her wanting to be with her, so that's what shes used to. I've caught her before talking and texting other guys a few times, pretty positive she's not actually doing anything though. And Ive confronted her about it and she finally admitted she likes the attention.

For example if a guy hits on her and wants to take her out, she wont say "no sorry i got a boyfriend", instead she will just kinda make up an excuse why she cant go out with him. That way she doesn't push the guy away and is able to keep getting attention. She likes keeping guys in that "zone" if you know what i mean. Now its not like she treats me bad, we spend pretty much every night together, shes affectionate, tells me she loves me, etc... so everything is pretty good, just this stuff with other guys.

Now how concerned should I be? Any ladies here do/done this too?

I have a couple of times but I'm still with my boyfriend and going strong. Maybe it helps boost her self confidence?