Why do teenage girls not want to go out with the sweet guys but instead they like hot guys who are slightly stupid?

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Opinions from contributors:

• It is probably because looks are what get you started in a relationship and you will eventually learn to like the personality. Would you rather see someone who is good looking or bad looking? Even if they have the same sweet personality, most people would pick good looking.
• A lot of girls don't like guys who are all that hot. They just look at guys personality and if they like their personality, they will flirt with them, but if they do not, they just ignore them. But then, a lot of the preppy girls will just go out with anyone.
• Women are "attracted" to strength, power, and even bullheaded arrogance. Remember there are exceptions to every rule. If you are a sweet guy and you are wondering why all the girls are going for the arrogant guys it is because they like you but are attracted to them.
• Teenage girls are no different than many teenage boys. The boys often will look for a good looking girl and over look the rather plain or unpopular girls and the same applies to girls not noticing the shy or plain looking guys. It's always been this way and there are always groups of the "beautiful people" in every high school. You either fit in or you don't.
• I'm a teenage girl and I fall for the sweet guys, not the stupid ones! I admit that the stupid ones are usually more appealing, but in the end it's always the sweet guys that win.
• Most of the 'hot' guys are arrogant and stupid and it's vise versa. They also go for hot not sporty or smart just looks!
• That's because sweet guys don't talk to girls very much so girls feel kinda uncomfortable but hot guys talk to girls so they feel comfortable and get interest in them.