Why do feelings resurface when you thought they were all gone?

Answer 1

Well, because then you start saying [in your head], I loved him once , I can love him again. So ,you well, like him, decide and tell him or not

Sometimes feelings resurface due to unresolved issues , things left unsaid, or even a hasty decision you regret . Sometimes, it's because as time passes you forget the bad and idealize the good . Whatever it was, think it over objectively, or write your feelings down and read over what you wrote. If the person was truly not meant for you, or you are romanticizing the past, seeing it in black and white might clarify things for you. You can also write the person a letter and throw it away . Sometimes just expressing yourself will help you resolve lingering feelings.