What should you do if your girlfriend told you she likes someone else yet loves you and this guy said he wants to have sex with her when he knows she's with you?

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To the women you are a safety-net when you really love someone you don't "Like" another man. She knows that if she convinces you that she loves you but feels attraction for another you may allow her to explore those feeling but still wait for her. By doing this she is taking a rist but still has the safety net of you waiting for her (no one wants to be alone). From the guys stand point; he sees a perfect opportunity to have sex with a girl who is already taken (no strings for him) he can use her and send her home so that the other guy can deal with her emotional issues. No respectful guy would agree to have sex with a girl who is in love with another person unless he is just looking for a quick fling. I think if this girl thinks she can put you in such a situation, you should move on to someone who derserve your time & attention. You should not be waiting around for her to figure out if he is better then you, and you shouldn't have to pick up the pieces from a mess that another guy is going to make. Good Luck; E.L.A. Drista

Answerthis is really tricky one. I've been here before. if your girlfriend says she loves you but likes someone else, and you know this guy wants sex with her. its clear he is trying to make you jealous and cause friction between you and your girlfriend. i would ask your girlfriend if she would rather be with this guy or you and to say you just want her to be happy. you might not get the answer you hope for but you would know the truth. i know its not much help x Answerif you really love her then you would tell her if you really love me then don't do it but if she already did and still doing it forget about it. AnswerSounds to me like a certain third party interferer needs a whoopin'. Seriously. This girl doesn't sound too faithful, but people can get confused, so I won't make any judgments for or against her. I don't know the context, and I can't judge her. As for him... Kick his nosy, interfering, conniving butt up and down and all over town, and make sure he remembers what it costs to mess with you and your woman. Hell, even if you're not going to stay with this girl, this guys needs a face-stomping, big-time. I'm serious. This is about drawing a line in the sand, man. Past this line, thou shalt not...

The Dude.

Hello,I'm Zack I had a relationship for 2years with my gf she fell in love with this guy is 2weeks. she doesn't know Him anything but she said that she loves him, and he loves her. when he get to know that Me and Her are together He said stay with him! she still loves Him but she loves me too. When I said you can only have 1 she said why cant I Love both? what is in her mind?

Well if it was me i would just go and brake the guys jaw and then finish her that way you will be happy you got everything off your chest ;)

Classic!

Attention Game that actually works for you:

She wants to know you're a man not a doormat. Tell her she is yours and he needs to back-off. Tell him the same. Girls like strength and to be possessed and cherished.

Sounds like she is looking for you to man up in public and in bed, man up.

She shouldn't stray in the least after you assert you actually care and demand respect! If she does, dump he hard and and walk away confident in your self!