Human interactions are always two sided. Another person may reflect and report on behaviors or attitudes they see, or what they believe they see. We all have emotional "filters" through which we see, hear, and read another person. If we're insightful and listen to our instincts, we often can assess another person correctly. But, much of the time, our own "filters" get in the way; we judge others incorrectly, or only partly correctly.
Take this example. Your regular teacher is sick today. A subsitute teacher enters the room and quietly, with a warm smile, says, "Everyone take your seats." The teacher is in her 50s, nicely but conservatively dressed, carrying a big bag of books. When she puts the bag on her desk, it makes a thud sound. You find yourself thinking, "What a mean old woman!" Now, she hasn't said or done anything "mean", but you are reading her through your own "filters".
When we receive feedback from others, we need to decide what is or isn't true. If your "attitude" has changed, think about how and why it changed. Perhaps you've felt irritated about something else, but haven't spoken about what irritates you. Your boyfriend might think your irritation is toward him-- but it's actually because your best friend betrayed you. So, we need to communicate better with people who are close to us. Or, perhaps you are upset with the boyfriend because you want to spend more time with him. But your words and actions push him away instead.
Philosphers say we must "know thyself". Figure out what you think and feel, and if your boyfriend has a different impression, you know what is not about you.
But on the other side, if we see others through filters, we must figure out why. When you say, "Spend time with me", does your boyfriend hear you as if his mother who demands he spends all his time with her... When the substitute teacher made the thud noise, did it remind you of when your older brother used to startle you by throwing a heavy book on the floor behind you--then smiling when you cried from being scared... Only with knowing how we filter other people can we know what comes from them---or from our own past experiences.
It means that you have some problems in your relationship that need to be analyzed and addressed. He could have said that for the following reasons:
No one can tell you what your boyfriend means when he says he doesn't like your attitude. We don't know you. In any case you better pay attention, deal with the issue, ask him to explain what's bothering him, take it seriously and then do something about it. You may need to ask that difficult question: Am I better off with or without him?
It means that you have some problems in your relationship that need to be analyzed and addressed. He could have said that for the following reasons:
No one can tell you what your boyfriend means when he says he doesn't like your attitude. We don't know you. In any case you better pay attention, deal with the issue, ask him to explain what's bothering him, take it seriously and then do something about it. You may need to ask that difficult question: Am I better off with or without him?
People change for many reason. The reason could be they lost someone in their life, or got a new girlfriend/boyfriend, their attitude is based on what is going on. Like if a former friend of yours was nice, then he/she met new popular people, he/she could possibly act mean, or stuck up. It depends on what the situation is.
You and your boyfriend may see attitude as different things. You may be frusterated or upset and he may only see attitude. It is possible that neither of you are wrong. Talk to him. (be pleasant and open minded) Tell him you do not think you have an attitude but understand that your emotions could be perceived as such. Have him describe what he thinks of as attitude and then you tell him what you are thinking. Hopefully you can come to a common ground. This may help you to understand each other better and make you closer.
You can't control him. She can speak with him, or she can make any continued contact with him be on her terms.
A customer first attitude is an attitude encouraged by many businesses where the customer's needs and comfort are placed above the employee's comfort and convenience. Employees with this attitude go above and beyond for customers and do whatever it takes to make the customer happy and satisfied with their service, within reason.
It is a quotation from the Bible - Titus 2: 8, meaning speak accurately and speak the truth so that your opponents will have no reason to criticise you
Maybe he is either trying to get over you and if you two speak it might make both of you upset or he just doesn't want to speak to you because he is with Someone else or he just doesn't want to speak to you
If you really want to know why your boyfriend blocked you on Facebook, is to ask him. He's the only one who knows the real reason.
this might mean that you have your perios or are pregnant but let a adult know but tell your boyfriend first
your friend might just be jealous of you for some reason like if you have a girlfriend or boyfriend they want
The attitude you have comes from the leadership you get
i think you mean attitude :P :)
It doesn't mean that your boyfriend will leave you for his ex... He cant control what you dream about, so dont punish him. What it does mean is that you are feeling a little insecure about the relationship and threatened by your boyfriends ex. Just remember that it was only a dream and that he is with you for a reason, enjoy your relationship...