You are not obliged to take someone back for any reason, it always remains your personal choice who you are in a relationship with. If the marriage is worth saving, counselling is something that helps many couples. His family may assume that the only reason for the split was Alcoholism but even if he is no longer alcoholic there is no law that says you can't continue to be separate, after all you could have moved on in the meantime. Be polite, but if they hassle you about this you are within your rights to tell them to mind their own business.
threatin to break up with him if he doesnt start improving his habbits of drinking instead of family
Lorna Crozier's mother copes with her husband's drinking by bottling up her emotions and keeping her feelings to herself. She remains silent and defers to her husband's actions to maintain peace within the family. She focuses on performing her duties and caring for her children despite the challenges presented by her husband's drinking.
He should see a physician immediately.
YES SHE can.she should discusss it with her husband and get a local Immam oe family elder involved and sort the matter.
If your family really cared for you they would understand you and letyou be happy with him.
you should give the husband the food so he doesnt get mad that he got less than everyone else in the familey
A girl need a man who can understand and adjust through out life. it is more than any worth.
Claire's husband in Modern Family is Phil Dunphy.
I bought an e-book titled "How to Stop Drinking". It is directed at the family so that all can understand the problems and how to overcome them. Worked for us .. hope it works for you too. Found it at www.controldrinking.net Good luck to you
making sure your family doesnt fall apart
Its funny. But I guess there is no relationship above husband-wife relationship. If your mom is not talking to your husband, give him importance , try to make your mom understand that your he is your life, and if there comes a time when you have to take a decision , you will always favour him. Explain your mom that you have to talk to him or atleat be amiable to him, if she wants good relationship with your family.
contructing family is only the husband and wife