How can you make a guy fall in love with you when he says he wants to work on himself first?

Answer 1

first you should stalk him, then when he is alone you give him a lap dance then you have to act like a horny chicken then he will change his mind and fall in love with you hope you have a happy relationship!!!!!! *****************************************************************

I'm sorry dear. This may be hard to hear, but you can't make anyone do anything! You should write a letter to this guy. A nice long, detailed letter and make it a farewell letter. Say goodbye to the one that keeps you waiting in the wings until he's ready. Life is too short for that. Find someone who appreciates you for who you are and is emotionally stable enough to work on himself at the same time as his relationship with you. Nothing good can come from you waiting for him.

Don't listen to this idiot's answer above mine. He's just making fun of your problem and I wish that kind of thing could be stopped on this site! Doveshaven