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First thing first, let me see if I understood your question here. You wanted to know if it's alright to tell the wife of the married man that you had an affair with? Wow darling are you feeling guilty or you just want this married man to get in trouble because he stop the affair with you? If this is your plan, being a scorn woman will not help you. You don't have the rights to tell his wife what the two of you did together, it's the husband job. If your really a christian after the first time the two of you slept together you could have just told this man that it's not right, but you didn't. And now you wanted to make amends. Maybe your intent is pure but you will be making a big mistake. Stop, it's time to move on
Answer #2
Are you trying to punish him for going back to her or trying to completely destroy her by letting her know that you were doing her husband and that's why he left her? Do you think this would please him?? Either way, it sounds repulsive and selfish. I don't know why the first answerer assumes you are christian based on your behavior. I don't think a real christian would have had the affair. who cares if you are a christian anyway, you should get some self esteem counseling and stop sleeping with other peoples husbands.
You do not tell your husband's girlfriend's employer anything. The employer is a businessman and is not interested in the private affairs of his employees unless it interferes with their work performance. It should be your husband you are going after and if you feel the relationship is over then file for divorce. Your husband is the one that started this affair because he either provoked the affair or he could have said 'no' if she suggested having an affair with him. Put the blame where it belongs ... your husband!
She doesn't want to be with her husband. If you're the husband, communicate with her about the problem and address the issues. Otherwise it will be too late.
No, it is not a mistake to tell the husband his wife was having an affair with your husband. However, some wives can be in denial and they may not believe their husband is cheating, but most do.
Confront him/her and tell the truth, if you are or aren't having a(n) affair with her boyfried/husband/fiance.
No. Let sleeping dogs lie.
Look you shouldn't take him back at all.
If it is yes most definately.
They are usually sore because it has ended if they were the one that wanted it to continue and generally they want to expose the affair and tell them anything they can.
Speaking again from experience (being the one that had the emotional affair, I'd say the signs are always there. An ''obsession'' to talk about the person, a distancing in you're own relationship, listening to love songs, pulling away from a physical relationship with you, or even saying the wrong name when with you. The opportunities that they seek out to be with this person, etc.
i would tell the husband its 'me or her' and let him choose!!
Ask the other woman if she says no then he is if she says yes then she is also. Why dont you just dump your husband and then you will know.
That is a decision you are going to have to make. Understand that it may destroy the relationship with your lover. And you better be sure that it is an affair and not something that you are creating in your mind. Better to talk with your lover rather than send accusations out.