Your boyfriend is in love with his mistress if he is not giving you as much sex as he used to and he wants to spend more time with her than with you.
Yes a husband CAN love a mistress but he CAN'Ttruly love his wife as well. If he truly loved his wife then he wouldn't need to have a mistress on the side. True love isn't spread around (other than family and friends) but able to be given to one other person and ONLY one other person, otherwise it is just lust.
no but he had a mistress who he moved to argebtina with him
2 things either he likes his wife better than you or hes an idiot. its simple really
If you have kids this is a bad idea. If you don't and your mistress has bigger boobs, go for it. Remember the grass always looks greener from across the street. Plus everything new seems more exciting than what you have everyday, just because it seems better does not mean that it is. ANSWER: If you think you love your mistress more than your wife, yes you can so she will not be hurting anymore. File a divorce so that way it will not be immoral especially when it comes to god's eyes. But do remember, what you did towards your wife will come back to you, whether you like it or not.
Is she in love or lust? If he is cheating on his wife for the mistress. Chances are he'll get another mistress if she becomes his 2nd wife. Drop him and find someone who will be faithful to the women he makes commitments to.
Sit down and think, if it wasn't for the mistress, would you want to leave your wife? If you are doing it for yourself (and as a bonus get to be with the other woman that you love) then go for it!
Normally he will love his mistress or he wouldn't leave his wife.
Sure. It is possible to 'love' more then one person. I have been down that same road before. But if you really 'LOVE' your wife then you should dump the mistress before you get caught. I had a affair for 15 years. It started before I got married and continued. Only after I caught my wife cheating on me with a ex-school friend did I see what I had right in front of me. Try to make the most of life with the person you are married to.
You should not have a mistress during any year and be more worried if you will still have a wife in 2011.
It depends on the circumstances but you are right when it comes to mistresses. When a married men do have the affair, their life do change, exciting moment, different out look, new surrounding and most a new woman who is not even close to his wife. The mistress gives everything to her married man, especially time and attention. They can talk about everything especially the intimate subject that supposed for man and his wife. The facts of this relationship is his wife is always busy without taking some kind of break. With this scenario, that how and when a married man start having a different feelings for his mistress. And yes in scale of 1-10 8% of the married men did love the mistress more than their wife...
The only thing I can think of for a married man to think of his ex mistress is if he fell in love with her and he don't love his wife anymore, got spoiled on everything from her. And maybe his ex mistress is good in bed, not like his wife just doing the same old thing.