The best way to get a mans attention?

Answer 1

* first of all don't get his number and text him twenty four seven. if u do that then the boy will get annoyed and not want to talk to you as much. the second thing is be respectful to the boys life. if he hardly knows you then why would he want to talk to u all the time. if i were a girl i would look at the boy a couple times in the eyes (the love look) and show him that i might be interested. don't just stair at him because that will make him think that you are a freak. lol good luck. * I don't think the post above really answered the question. It has a few good points though (especially regarding sending too many texts, guys don't like that because they want to talk to you, not to an electronic device). As for getting their attention:

(1) Guys don't read signals very well... if you are interested in a guy, tell him how you feel, open up completely and describe your feelings, even if you feel really shy doing that. If anything, some shyness will count in your favor as it will show him that you are really interested in him, not just toying with him - which guys generally suspect if a girl seems too confident.

(2) From day one, make a lot of skin contact, just simple things like putting your hand on his shoulders/arms/back - avoid touching the legs on a first date as some guys might be uncomfortable with that, and when saying goodbye, go in for a hug, even if he resists a bit the first time. If you never made any skin contact during the first few times you met, it will set the expectation that you are 'out of reach', or 'just a friend', it would be hard to build a relationship after that.

(3) Once you've known him for two or three weeks and you are comfortable around each other, if he hasen't made his move even though he knows how you feel, I would suggest doing something bold to make sure his mind is moving in the right direction. You could, for example, give him a hug from behind, making sure your breasts are pressing into his back. On the surface, all you did was hug him, no harm done, but hopefully with this, he will realize you are a girl and will start looking at you as such. Once his thinking is heading in that direction, you've pretty much got his attention and hopefully he'll make his move soon.

Here is one more tip for you. Guys like looking at a girl's body, if you catch him looking at your chest or butt or anywhere else, ignore it and let him look. The fact that he is looking at you means he is interested, this is not a bad thing. If you say something to discourage him from looking at you, or do something that indicates that you are uncomfortable with him looking at you, it will discourage him from thinking about you as a potential girlfriend. Guys expect girls to be comfortable with being looked at, and if you can't manage that now, how will you manage when you're actually going out with each other? The best reaction you can give is an indication that you do not mind him looking, or possibly even want him to look, do not give the impression that you dislike it. Well, good luck.

Answer 2

Well first you should get to know each other more.Example? Ask questions to him.Like whats your favorite color or a movie.And even tell him about yourself too.And once's you done that, wait for about a day.And to grab someone's attention,be yourself.Flirt less otherwise you'll get overboard with it.Try to smile or make eye contact with him.Laugh at his jokes..Or make compliments about his shirt or something.A conversation will do just fine.He'll get the hint.