You feel your husband is getting attracted to his coworker you asked him but he says no she's just a colleague but you feel he has a soft corner for her or he is slowly falling for her. I'm confused?

Answer 1

There has to be trouble in paradise (your marriage) or you wouldn't be feeling so insecure. Many men have to work with women, but it doesn't mean they are in love with them. Here are some signs that he may be:

• If he's always mentioning her name (unless it's to do with work.)
• If he works too much O/T
• If he makes excuses for staying out over-night
• If he's ignoring you in conversation or sexually
• If he forgets your special occasions when he never use too

These are some points. I suggest you sit down and communicate your feelings with your husband. It's obvious you have marriage problems or you wouldn't feel so insecure. Let it all out and give him a chance to express his feeling because PERHAPS he's telling you the truth. My husband works close with two women and I've been married to him for 35 years and have never had a problem. He knows if he cheats on me that will be the end of things. I know that anyone could possibly cheat on another person, but, if that's the road my mate would like to choose then he can keep going!