I find this question confusing, as you say you are a lesbian and your friend is gay...yet you are attracted to each other..
If you are a female as well.
I fear I must go with .. "That's not a question...:
Only she can answer these questions. Ask her, if you and she are truly friends then you need not be afraid to ask.
Well, that depends on you. There'll be a decision made in the end somehow.you have to let the one you less likely love down easy get go for the other one
She probably did that because she liked him and was to shy to confront and say aloud.
She does this to learn more about boys and what they like .It's all to impress you !!
Considering you're female, you may be. However, you may also be fond of males as well. So, you may be bisexual instead.
lesbian
both ends of the party have a crush on each other
If she's really a lesbian, then she can might be able to have a man-crush on you (also called a "bromance"), but not an intimate or romantic crush.
That really depends on what that secret is... If you want to say that your gay or lesbian wait untill your drunk:) if its a crush... He or she is your BEST friend if they really are they will not tell anyone. Hope i helped !
Either they don't want the bond between you publicly acknowledged yet, or they don't have/don't care about Skype.