Why wont your boyfriend be supportive of your unplanned pregnancy?

Answer 1

Well I do not know your boyfriend or the circumstances but I can tell you that he is probably scared, for many reasons. You have probably heard that women become a mother as soon as they conceive, and men usually become a father when they see their baby. This is true in a lot of cases. Your boyfriend may be scared because he isn't ready to be a father, he isn't ready to not just have time alone and it be the two of you, he isn't ready financially, etc. There could be a lot of reasons. You need to communicated with each other and share your fears and concerns. It takes a strong and courageous woman to follow through with an unplanned pregnancy, especially when those around her are not supportive. I respect what you are doing. But you should talk to your boyfriend about it, express to him why it is important to you for him to be supportive. Maybe he just needs some time to settle in the idea of become a father. Here are some support groups you might look at joining:

* http://groups.Yahoo.com/phrase/unplanned-pregnancy * http://www.afterabortion.com/crisis.html * http://www.adoptionservices.org/pregnancy/pregnancy_support_groups.htm Also, check out the related links for more information about coping with an unplanned pregnancy.