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An affair is a betrayal of trust, and it is very hard to be comfortable and intimate with someone (your husband or anyone else) when your trust has been betrayed.

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Q: Why is it hard to have intimacy after your husband had the affair?
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Is there intimacy after an affair?

There ca an intimacy after an affair if they still have feelings for each other.


Is it normal to forgive your husband's affair but having a hard time forgetting it?

yes it is normal


What are signs that you are having an emotional affair?

An "emotional affair" is an affair, which excludes physical intimacy but includes emotional intimacy. It may also be called an affair of the heart. Where one partner is in a committed monogamous relationship, an emotional affair is a type of chaste nonmonogamy without consummation. When the affair breaches an agreement in the monogamous relationship of one of the partners to the affair, the term infidelity may be more apt source: wikipedia


Why are you sexually aroused by your wife's affair?

AnswerGo ask your wife and her lover if they are ok with a threesome. ANSWER:Could it be that you know how your wife is in bed when the two of you is having intimacy, and now she is doing it with another man, and to you, that will be a turn on. Don't understand how but when it happens to me, it was hard to have intimacy with the man I married..


What is a work husband?

A work husband is a person with whom a person has a platonic intimacy at work.


Do you find yourself having a problem restoring intimacy after your husband's affair?

Yes. All the time. I can't think of the last time we have had sex where I wasn't thinking about if he was thinking about her. I just don't want to do it anymore to be honest.


How can I explain my affair to my husband and that there was no intimacy?

You will have to think very clearly about telling your husband about having an emotional affair. Most men do not believe a woman can have an emotional affair and not have a sexual relationship. There is a high possibility that your husband may not believe that when you had an affair there was no sex involved although this is highly possible, but not in his mind. What you can do is learn good communication skills and you must have had your reasons (that clouded your judgment) to have an affair and you need to deal with these problems. Take time to think why you felt the need to have an emotional affair in the first place and then sit down with your husband and express why you are unhappy in the marriage and perhaps seek Marriage Counseling or the two of you could make a better effort with each other to make your marriage a more solid one. Once you have broken that bond of trust with your spouse it is difficult to gain their trust back.


What are the symptoms when your husband has an affair?

if he is accusing you of having an affair, when you are not.


What to do if your husband and sister had an affair?

Divorse to husband , breakupwith boyfriend


Why is it hard to love your spouse again after his affair?

It is hard because you know he is not faithful. Psychology wise: Number one need for a person is consistency. It gives security and a sense of stableness which allows a good relationship. The affair breaks this which demolishes the consistency between the husband and wife. Also, affairs will demolished the self-esteem of both husband and wife.


If a wife cuts off her husband from sex intimacy and has had an affair and only stays in the home to save money to leave is the husband wrong for having an affair?

yes.two wrongs do not make a right. Thou shalt not covert thou neighbors wife /husband. I would say that the marriage is clearly over is its clear the wife is only home to save money and is leaving. Discuss it and end it. If you like another person, be honest and let them know what is going on. If they want to continue seeing you then I dont see it as a problem unless the affair is going to complicate the divorce.


Can you sue your husband for having an affair?

No