Why do women prefer BAD boys and not nice guys?

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AnswerWomen like bad boys because the world is a madhouse, running on a system of hate, the opposite to God and logic. The original plan was a nice boy and nice girl would love each other honoring God (who is love) so God would give them everything. When Eve was deceived by the "devil", the god of self, human nature, the world fell into the animal, survival of the fittest hate system. It is a "war zone" where women trust in dominance instead of love, and the man, not God is the "provider and protector" The world worships the god of self and independence from God.

They think he is a "real" man because he has a "self confident" "warrior" nature and remains dominant. But like Adam, he will never be as deceived as the woman so she will have the advantage and choose and control him. Most women are mercenary warriors looking for the best weapon (man) to use against people. Evil women look for security in the god of hate, not love but he doesn't exist! The only real security is in love. They want to stand behind him while he, like a sucker fights her battles. Then she remains innocent. Love has nothing to do with it.

A REAL man (nice boy) is not confident but humble because he realizes he has no authority and believes in the invisible God. A REAL man has no "war spirit" and allows the girl free will and puts her on a pedestal, He is more like God so doesn't need to try and dominate her and act tough. Smart nice girls like "nice boys" because they believe in the REAL God too and trust in love, but they are rare as hens teeth.

AnswerNot all women prefer BAD boys. Some women like them because in their minds they like the wild side and want to tame them (that means if they can then this guy really loves them.) Unfortunately, it doesn't prove a blasted thing. If you like the way someone is then why try to change them? There is an excitement about BAD boys for some women, but on the whole, 3/4 of women like just a normal guy. Who wants to waste energy on the BAD boys! AnswerThe whole bad boys/nice guys is a dumb dichotomy, as many bad boys are wannabee showoffs and most nice guys aren't really nice at all. Drama addicts want people who will keep them on an emotional roller-coaster.

Some people like the thrill of a challenge and an ego boost if they can get the bad acting person to love them (usually doesn't happen). Niceness is a decision; serial killers have been nice to someone at one point in their lives. People who try to be nice or act clingy in order to make someone love them aren't nice, they're wimpy and/or manipulative.

AnswerTo some extent I do agree with the above poster. However, I do feel that when younger we try to fit in some place so some people can appear mysterious (guys love this in a woman and vice-versa), give off a persona of being wild and bad or are simply nice guys. The nice guys I'm talking about are confident and have some semblance of what they want out of life and where they are going. This does not mean they are wimps. There is nothing more refreshing then a man being open and honest about their feelings and to be quite honest if a man can't cry a few times in his life when life throws him pits from the cherry pot then he isn't much of a man! AnswerI think that that we woman/girls like bad boys over nice guys because of the way they are. They keep you on your toes. You never know what they are going to next. I am dating a bad boy right now who is also older then me, and we have no problems at all. I did change him a little also. He now goes to church with his grandma and two sisters every Sunday and Wednesday. I'm proud of him and what i have inspired him to do, and i don't even go to church. So if you want to have a fun relationship go for a bad boy. They're fun. So find one and go for the gold!!! And they're sexy!! AnswerThe term "Bad Boy" is defined by the self-proclaimed "Nice Guys" and so is typically used to refer to anyone dating the woman the "Nice Guy" wants to be with. The self-proclaimed "Nice Guy" is often a misogynist in disguise*