Talkers have a great need to control & dominate a situation through constantly talking. When they have the spotlight, the environment & atmosphere is up to them and in their control. They also have a great need to get attention and haven't yet learned the fine art of conversation. They are stuck on talking at you. They don't know when it is their turn to be quiet and allow another to speak.
give them nothing to talk about.
Get people to talk about themselves. If you have a knack for getting people to talk to you about themselves, you will quickly get a reputation as a "great conversationalist".
Some people feel better about themselves when they talk negatively about others. Just try to ignore them.
I used to stop and talk to them to see if they were OK. Now you just have to assume they are on a bluetooth headset.
Be a good listener. People love to talk about themselves.
Sure, why not? After all they are just people like you or I. Some may be automated machines and might be hard to talk to but that shouldn't stop you either.
never stop.
Typically, they gossip and discuss the flaws of all the unpopular people. At least that's what they talk about when they aren't talking about themselves.
Some people underestimate people because of prejudice. It's a bad call because they might not be right. BIG facebook oops and some people just use Phasebook to talk with themselves.
People who talk to themselves are often referred to as "self-talkers" or "soliloquizers." Additionally, if someone talks to themselves as a way to cope with situations or to better understand their thoughts, they may be described as "self-talkers" or "self-reflective."
Some people like to talk just to hear themselves talk and they'e not really interested a real conversation with another person.
Any people (emo or otherwise) who cut themselves deliberately have very serious emotional problems. When this happens in adolescents I would suspect hostile and abusive parents are involved in the emotional problems. People cut themselves as a rather desperate cry for help. The first thing to do is to get such a person to talk openly and freely about what is wrong in their life. You would have to persuade this person that you can be trusted and that you have a sincere desire to help. When you have some details about what is bothering such a person, you will have some idea of what needs to be done to help him or her.