You don't. Just as gay men cannot turn straight, it's the same for straight men; they cannot turn gay.
Some gay men do, and some don't.
NO!!! If you are not gay you cannot be made to be gay.
They turn out to be gay mostly when they are attracted to members of the same sex, and then decide to come out.
Nothing can turn a straight man gay. There are gay young men (all ages) in different circles of society, but gym doesn't turn straight guys into gay guys. Gay or straight both deserve the respect they give the other person. It is a fallacy that gay men are effeminate and 'swishy.' Many gay men can be longshoremen; truckers; in sports such as football or baseball and fight in wars just as good as straight men.
Some gay men have stocking fetishes, and some heterosexual men have stocking fetishes.
No, most military men are not gay. But some are.
No, not necessarily. Some men find it a turn on, just as some find it a turn on if you are willing to do most anything, kinky as opposed to conventional.
No. It just drives them nuts.
Gay men refer to males that are not gay or bi but would trade if the price is right.
Nobody can turn gay, but if it were possible, and if all men turned gay, then reproduction would have to be done mainly through artificial insemination.
No. Gay men have just as much value in society as straight men. In some cases, more so, because some gay men adopt the children that straight men abandon.