Why do people miss other people?

Answer 1

maybe they miss them because they are or were highly loved and/or

appriciated. If you had a bff and she/he went on a trip for a month or two,

would you miss them? Or say that a loved one in your family died. Would you

miss them?

Within my small realm of experience with such emotional loss and disconcerted disconnectedness stems mainly from the "feeling" or emotional detachment severed when faced with such a grieving loss. I believe that when you truly form bonds with others, family, friends,ect.,ect., the creation suddenly forms into a new "relationship" where love takes the place of adoration, admiration and the spiritual connection thereby formed throughout this arduous undertaking from all individuals concerned by this momentous, tremendous event by both, or all parties involved.

Usually, but, make no mistakes it seems far from a likely fruitful, relevant quest, nor should it be misconstrued as even a rare relative constant! Most people search their entire lives only to find themselves alone and empty-handed in the end...

It's really sad that hardly anyone gets to share in this absolutely amazingly unique, electric bond of sharing your life with a true "soulmate"...

However, I'm not being pessimistic, to the contrary, don't get me wrong I am not declaring or claiming that it never happens or is total myth at all, it does occasionly occurs to very small few. Just not to everybody and less likely to those undeserving, faithless, selfish and uncommitted that lack the honesty to be certain and confident in themselves as well as with their future mates enough to believe they could have it too? If they merely could find the strength and faith to truly believe and be willing to try hard enough to will it into being, it can happen if you want it bad enough, if not, well then, not.... To those undesriables I'd mentioned before as being unworthy, irreconcilable, unconditional, and the absolutely indomitable sort of lonesome souls out there, WTFU! Continue with these undying passionateless, meaningless affairs and habitual aldultry, your non-commitment to those vow's and the band you thought you'd have to have been fated to enjoy, those lies and deviousness will be your undoing!!

Relationships are two-way streets, give & take contributions that most of the time may seem to be minor acts of affection or perhaps even appear as a inconsequential gesture to you, but believe me when I tell you that he or she or whatever your given situation is, they will notice! Trust me, some of the tiniest things stick into my mind, just like R.W. told Matt Damon in that movie, it's the cold hard truth. Sometimes things may even appear to you as nothing, but nine times outta ten, they are everything to your truly beloved, I know this for a fact! Many times the most treasured gift you could have ever perhaps given them, sometimes it turns out to be the most trivial item you can possibly imagine, but, they will treasure it for the remainder of their days and love you that much more for it! Most of those times happen when you've done merely what seems to you as hardly even anything worthy of mentioning, but, it really is the smallest almost inconceivable acts of ultimate love and devotion that hang on the hardest and likely end up as being recalled as some of the fondest memories you could ever hope to hold!

'Cause it does, once in a blue moon, very infrequently though, fate discovers two worthy of it, finds these two, miraculously brings them together through some of the most oddest, unimaginable situation, but none-the-less, brings these two people whom have had, had destiny place the correct cards into their hands allowing the whole entire affair the chemistry, love, trust, and honesty to joins the two of them with a virtually unsurmountable bond, that precious joy and indescribable ecstatic feeling of becoming overwhelmed completely!, You will know and feel it within your very core, don't deny it, nor ignore it as an odd, weird feeling that strangely has never occurred to you before! Embrace it, enjoy it for as long as you are physically able, because once they're gone, they'll remain with you inside your heart forever, but, you'll never again caress them, hold them in troubled times, or any of that ever again! Only within your own memories, that's why you have to make the most of them building up as many as possible, sure the bad, ugly ones tend to bounce back toward the front every now and again when you, yourself are lost, confused, troubled....

That's natural, push them back and recall all the pleasant times you've endured!

I've been blessed with such a thing & I can vouch that it does happen, if oddly very rarely!? I know I will always relish & cherish those day's I was given for the rest of my days of existence. Until it becomes my own turn for mine "crossing" of what "we", MY people, what the Native Americans refer to as the "River Of Tears" & the more you weep for that particular lost loved one the harder it makes their journey, so remember this little tid-bit if'n you'd gained nothing else from my drivel and rambling emotions, rejoice in your loved ones life, celebrate that you were fortunate enough to have shared in their lives, probably impacting it quite severely, but, with good justified cause and conviction, trust me, it helps the hurt relieve itself and release yourself from it's ponderous grip!

I truly hope my journey finds me home again...

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