0
When I was in elementary school and even into junior high, I found myself wanting to have an older man in my life. There was nothing wrong with my parents or my home life. I grew up in a stable middle class household, where all the I's were dotted and T's had been crossed.
If I look back at my motivations for wanting to be with an older man. They were simple yet confusing. Something about them called to me. The need to be held, cuddled and the want to have someone more experienced help me explore the "me" that was inside. What better way to help understand my emotions, physical nature and mentality than an old version of myself, an older man?
I think in simple form, certain boys want to be loved. Not like a parent love's a child, but rather like a reader might cherrish a good book. They wan't to know that they are important and have a place in the hearts other people, not just family and friends.
I also believe that there is a level of phallic idolization that comes into play. Some boys will see an older man in a public shower, like at a swimming pool or the YMCA, and think how gross! Yet, others will see a man's larger adult genitals and be facinated. A need to explore that facination grows and the dream of being intimate with and old man begins to take hold in the minds. Some get the chance to explore it. Often time's in a wholesome and tender way. For other's, it stays a dream and a fantasy.
I hope that helps answer the question.
There are many answers to this question.
1. Because boys represent themselves ,at a young age, and they are trying to recapture lost childhood.
2. Because boys' lack of adult characteristics makes them less obviously masculine.
3. Because their personal characteristics (e.g. smooth skin, childish facial appearance) are erogenous to the older man.
4. In some depraved cases, because older men can more easily prey on people younger and more vulnerable. Such cases may involve sexual interference, rape or violence.
5. Occasionally, boys prefer older men, and actively encourage their attentions.
There are doubtless many other reasons. cause older men are pervs
Add your answer:
Earn +20 pts
Why do young teens sexually loves older men?
Because they think that older men aren't as childish like boys their own age. They also don't get how much trouble they can get in.
Why young men like older women?
Honestly, young men like older women because of the fact that they are mature females with fully developed body parts, its a sexual attraction. Men also like getting women that are hard to get, many guys like a challenge.
Were The roles of women in Shakespeare's plays taken by boys?
Yes, the young women anyway. Older women (like the Nurse in Romeo and Juliet or Volumnia in Coriolanus) could be played by adult men.
What do you call young men who date older women?
Young men who date older women are often called "cougar hunters" or "cubs."
In world war 2 why did they send young men to war not older men?
Because young men are stronger and old men are weaker
Is autism more likely in men or women?
Men. a.k.a. young boys
What type of audience do graphic novels appeal to?
Typically an older audience, mostly young men, who like geeky things.
Do young girls have intrests in being a older mans mitress?
How older married men finds a young mistress
Are older men attracted to teens?
Some like older men, others like men their age or younger it really depends.
Did girls fight in battle in the civil war?
No. The troops were young men and boys. The boys were drummer boys, but many did fight as well.
How old were the men and boys involved in the civil war?
Well children older than 15 would and not really older men. some would be 16 at the least
Can older men be best boys?
yes they can. if you ask them how old they are and you are about the age of15 to 26.
