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Complicated.
1: some guys are selfish jerks who will say anything to get into your underwear. (This is the majority, really. They really just want a lot of sex all the time with a lot of different girls. Until they grow up, when they still want it but know that it gets them in trouble, like with diseases and psycho girls who want to teach them a lesson about being stupid.) Some guys are nice though, and will be faithful, but most girls are none too bright and only like the popular cute guys who will definitely cheat. Here's a hint: if you pick a guy because he's hot, don't be surprised when his personality sucks. (Guys do this all the time. It drives me crazy to hear a guy complain about that the girlfriend he picked because she wore a D cup and had a cute face doesn't have a personality he likes. It's lame.)
Try going out with a less attractive sort of skinny geeky guy, seriously. They end up earning more money, they learn to be cooler and they usually don't cheat. They are willing to do nice stuff with you, want to spend time, are generally good at listening and still really really want to get into your pants, which is flattering. Plus, when you get older and see how hot they grew up to be you'll be seriously delighted at your good taste. Spots go away, skinny turns into lean, and shy turns into thoughtful around age 21 to 27... it's really neat to watch. I seriously wish I'd had someone tell me this in high school...
Other reasons: (but if you believe these of your guy you'd better have a darn good reason, or you're just deluding yourself)
2: sometimes they do mean it at first but then their feelings change. 3: sometimes he means it a little, but not enough to be solid and stick around. 4: sometimes he really really means it but pushing the issue will push him away. 5: sometimes he really really loves you but something else is going on and he has to deal with that before he can cope with love. (This is so rare it's not funny, so it's not likely it's your case. Don't get your hopes up, ok?)
i SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO agree with all of them but some guys acually mean it
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Why do guys say they love you but only little few mean it?
Quite a few men and boys say "I love you " when they dont mean it so they can have sex with you. At least that is their hope.
Why don't guys tell you they love you in public?
Guys dont tell you they love you in public because they care what other people say and they dont want to show other guys that they are weak!!!!!!!!!!
This guy loves me what should I say back?
If you like him say I love you to him backAnswer::If you love him say it back, but if you are not sure dont say anything. And if you guys are not dating yet and you like him tell him you like him but dont love him yet..or if you guys arent dating and you dont like him tell him.. But most of all tell the truth and tell him what you feel
Why do guys say they love you but thewhy dont mean it and why do they always tend to lie to u?
cause boys like to sniff a lot of clams
Why dont guys just flat out tell you they love you not say I 3 you?
Because some guys are scared that if they say I love you, that the person they said I love you to won't say it back... Or to defend there manly man-ness. Or they just don't love you.
You really love him but you dont want to say it what to do?
If you haven't told him that he is cute, say that. I'm a guy and guys eventually catch on.
How do guys say they love you. Does love count i am confused?
well..... everyone wants to hear i love you but, if you don't mean it you shouldn't say it that would be wrong!!!!!!
How do you say i need you love?
I dont understand the "need you love". Did you really mean "I need YOUR love?"
What does it mean when you say love you to your boyfriend and he mumbles love you too?
It could mean he's not ready to say it yet or he's one of those guys who's embarrassed to say how they feel.
If you can't tell someone why you love them does it mean that you don't?
if you dont love them then dont say you do... i think it matters that u dont.. could give them the wrong feelings towards you
When guys say they love you as a friend could it mean more?
Truthfully, there is no answer. It could mean so many things though.
How do you know he is not lying that he loves you?
you DON'T know. this guy could be good at lying or he may be feeling the love in the time being, but not feeling it later on. you just have to take the chance..i dont think all guys mean it every time they say, "i love you".
