becausr u probably feel guilty of YOU cheating on him
This dream suggests that you continue to feel abused by your husband even after his death, perhaps because of spiteful conditions in the will or entanglements in the estate. > Alternatively, the image of your deceased husband might be a metaphor representing the pain of your grief. In that case, the dream might express the anger you feel toward him for leaving you. Such feelings are often denied and hidden from one's own consciousness, only to arise in distorted forms such as this dream.
stop cheating on him? - well maybe you are doing something that you are unaware of but your husband senses other things , that leads up too you cheating on him.
Often some Catholic priests have good advice. Ask them.
Dreams often will bring to one's attention deeply hidden or repressed emotions. The dream could illustrate the dreamer's intuitive understanding of the husband's sadness. Alternatively, the husband in the dream might symbolize the dreamer's own self and her own grief.
The dream is triggered by the dreamer's own emotions about the recent death. The subconscious mind often has difficulty accepting the reality of death and will attempt to restore the relationship through dream images.
It is not uncommon for a wife to take a submissive role to the husband, often without realizing she is doing it. Just as often, a wife's thoughts, ideas or opinions can be intentionally or unintentionally discounted or set aside in favor of the husband's thoughts and opinions. This dream is a very expressive literal representation of the wife's point of view - her brain - being discarded in favor of his view. The message of the dream is to pull yourself together and claim the right to think your own thoughts and make your own decisions.
Often there is no excuse for cheating, but when a person is on drugs they often don't know what they are doing and of course, cheating can occur. The way to help not only your husband, but yourself is by talking to him and telling him if he does not go to a detox center to get off drugs that you will leave him. If he agrees then be there for him. If he refuses then intervention of his family and those that love him can sometimes work. If he refuses all help then you must make the painful decision to leave him.
Dreams often replay or rehearse common events of the dreamer's day. In this instance, the dream might be sorting through random experiences. Another possibility is that the dream is presenting a scenario in which the dreamer can practice different responses.
Most good wives married expecting their husbands would be faithful and depending on the personality of her husband it is possible he still could be loving and caring towards her and she has no reason to think he is cheating. There be no signs from him he is cheating. Cheaters rarely win and often find themselves alone and left with many regrets.
This dream could have several very different interpretations. The most likely is that the "girl cousin" represents some part of the dreamer's own self, visualized as the cousin in the dream because of similar characteristics. ... A second possibility is that the cousin is a symbol for some interest or activity that the dreamer feels is taking too much of the husband's attention. For example, perhaps the cousin is a big fan of football; that would suggest that the dreamer feels she is competing with sports for her husband's attention. .... Finally, it is possible that the dreamer has been ignoring subtle signs of infidelity or that she is in denial about real problems in her marriage. In this case, the dream is a wake up call. Note that even in this situation, the "cousin" is symbolic, and not necessarily involved in any way.
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aside from the routine snooping, observe his body language and look -- tho don't over do it -- for discrepancies between his words and his body language including his actions. at some point, voice your suspicions and ask him directly if he's cheating. most liars are not hard to find out if you're paying attention.