Why can women touch male strippers an men can't touch female strippers?

Answer 1

It's generally because male strippers aren't hired for sexual gratification, but for entertainment and humerous novelty reasons. Therefore the intent behind wanting to touch one is entirely different. In fact, in some cases male strippers encourage women to touch them for numerous reasons, ranging from personal gratification to the likelihood of getting more money. There's no strict guidelines on men performing for women because the reasons for the performances are often radically different. Men tend to take stripping (both watching and performing) much more seriously then women.