It's a matter of oppinion, but it's shallow to judge someone on their appearence, much like racism- although obviously being over weight is unhealthy and something that can change, whereas skin colour/culture is hereditry.
Even so, some people don't feel the need to fit the 'structures of society' so choose to live ina way that they are personally happy, and if that means they're a bit overweight (over what weight?? BMI is ineffective and all people are different concerning what is healthy, it's a pet hate that as a society we judge others by the essence of humanity, as opposed to a statistical collection of evidence as to want is the Median value of any such thing, including, obviously, height, weight, foot size etc. for both women and men exclusivley) everyone deserves freedom of speech, movement and oppinion, and if one is unable to understand that and is fundamentally offended/dissapointed, their objection, by their own standards would be offensive to others equally.
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